Pros and cons of dating soonyoung please? I'd really appreciate it, I hope you have a good day :)
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Disclaimer: All of these are just based on my sometimes-biased opinions and whatever I wrote below does not, in any way, completely and correctly describes Hoesh.
One more thing I noticed is that these pros and cons are based on what I consider as pros and cons. Some of the pros might be cons to you guys and vice versa, so please do take this with a grain of salt and remember that this is just for entertainment.
Hoshi // Kwon Soonyoung
Pros
Soonyoung will be honest and straightforward–in a good way. I feel like he’s the type to build relationships with trust as the most important foundation, because I feel that he believes that with trust comes respect, loyalty, and love, which are important values in a relationship. With trust, there’s lesser conflicts in communication which may cause fights later on, and he wants to avoid that.
With this, he’s very lax, open, and doesn’t restrict you much. He’s really supportive of what you want to do. Remember when someone asked him about what he’ll do when his girlfriend asks him to deliver a gift (? Can’t remember the exact question) to/biases another member of the group and then he said things like those don’t faze him? Yeah. They won’t because he knows it wouldn’t make even the slightest dent on your relationship and he knows that at the end of the day, it’s him you love.
He has a proper amount of natural aegyo (even though they can become cringe-y at the times when he wants them to be). It’s not the kind that is overly sweet or cute, it’s like he’s naturally cute that even if he doesn’t intend to, what he does comes out as cute.
Soonyoung’s always ready to drop things for you if he deems it necessary, like in emergencies. He wouldn’t give a single fuck as to what he’s going to drop because he’ll be focused on your well being and only yours. He’ll decide to think about the consequences after everything is over because you’re the most important person in his life therefore he deems that you deserve to be his top priority.
He has natural wit--now that everyone knows of. He can easily make you laugh even when you’re down, and he has this innate ability of being able to make you smile even if it’s unintentional.
Also, I think like he’s the kind of guy who’ll be able to come up with really clever and romantic date or celebration ideas that you will be uncomfortable with. He knows the boundaries of what you like and don’t like, and even if you have a really short boundary range, he’ll still be able to think of a long list of sweet ideas for your next dates.
He’s also the type who tries to be as positive as he can. Really bad day? Doubting if you’re going to the right road (metaphorically)? He’ll do his best to be your positive energy, the person who you can hold onto and just be that light you might not even have thought you needed.
It’s also no doubt that he’s a very hardworking person, and this means he’ll also work hard on making this one of, if not, the best relationship you’ve/you’ll ever have/had. You’ll clearly see his efforts to keep your relationship burning and alive, even through small acts that you might not even notice at first.
Cons
He has low confidence that might cause a few insecurities along the way. You have to constantly assure him that he’s done so much already and he shouldn’t push himself too much. You also have to be really alert and sensitive with his emotions because he may have the tendency to keeps things in. Chances are, he will explode when his emotions reach a very high intensity.
This may also be the reason why he can be way too hardworking at times that he forgets to take care of himself. You have to be able to at least take care of him or convince him to stop and breathe.
I assume he takes more things in than he should. Saying no, especially to opportunities, proves to be difficult to him even if he has so much in his plate already. He wants to learn as much as he can, but due to this, he forgets to do things one at a time. You have to be able to convince him to stop when the things he has to do are stacking up into a mountain, or maybe be able to help him on your own way.
I feel like he’s someone who forgives but doesn’t, or has a hard time to, forget about what happened. Like, he’s the type to hold long-term grudges, and if the two of you fight, he might be the type to remind you of your past mistakes that both of you have solved already. This might be really frustrating for you, so I think you’ll need a lot of patience when you do come into a conflict.
When he says no, it’s final. It’s rare for him to say no and he may be very lax as a boyfriend, but when he tells you no then he really means it. If you can be stubborn at times when this happens then you might raise heated conflicts at one point in your relationship.
Sorry it took so long, but it’s here! Hope y’all like it.