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Yo so I'm nearly done with the Seokmin pros + cons my only problem is I can't think of a con to add and it's already been two weeks lol
Just a heads up: Iâm no longer accepting requests. Will just finish the requests in my drafts. Still not sure if Iâll deactivate this blog after like a year or just leave it open. Iâll think about it once Iâve finished all requests.
Sorry.
pros/cons for dating hoshi? tyâ¨
Just posted, sorry for waiting for so long! Click here to go to the post.
Pros and cons of dating soonyoung please? I'd really appreciate it, I hope you have a good day :)
Hope you have a good day too đ
Disclaimer: All of these are just based on my sometimes-biased opinions and whatever I wrote below does not, in any way, completely and correctly describes Hoesh.
One more thing I noticed is that these pros and cons are based on what I consider as pros and cons. Some of the pros might be cons to you guys and vice versa, so please do take this with a grain of salt and remember that this is just for entertainment.
Hoshi // Kwon Soonyoung
Pros
Soonyoung will be honest and straightforwardâin a good way. I feel like heâs the type to build relationships with trust as the most important foundation, because I feel that he believes that with trust comes respect, loyalty, and love, which are important values in a relationship. With trust, thereâs lesser conflicts in communication which may cause fights later on, and he wants to avoid that.
With this, heâs very lax, open, and doesnât restrict you much. Heâs really supportive of what you want to do. Remember when someone asked him about what heâll do when his girlfriend asks him to deliver a gift (? Canât remember the exact question) to/biases another member of the group and then he said things like those donât faze him? Yeah. They wonât because he knows it wouldnât make even the slightest dent on your relationship and he knows that at the end of the day, itâs him you love.
He has a proper amount of natural aegyo (even though they can become cringe-y at the times when he wants them to be). Itâs not the kind that is overly sweet or cute, itâs like heâs naturally cute that even if he doesnât intend to, what he does comes out as cute.
Soonyoungâs always ready to drop things for you if he deems it necessary, like in emergencies. He wouldnât give a single fuck as to what heâs going to drop because heâll be focused on your well being and only yours. Heâll decide to think about the consequences after everything is over because youâre the most important person in his life therefore he deems that you deserve to be his top priority.Â
He has natural wit--now that everyone knows of. He can easily make you laugh even when youâre down, and he has this innate ability of being able to make you smile even if itâs unintentional.Â
Also, I think like heâs the kind of guy whoâll be able to come up with really clever and romantic date or celebration ideas that you will be uncomfortable with. He knows the boundaries of what you like and donât like, and even if you have a really short boundary range, heâll still be able to think of a long list of sweet ideas for your next dates.
Heâs also the type who tries to be as positive as he can. Really bad day? Doubting if youâre going to the right road (metaphorically)? Heâll do his best to be your positive energy, the person who you can hold onto and just be that light you might not even have thought you needed.
Itâs also no doubt that heâs a very hardworking person, and this means heâll also work hard on making this one of, if not, the best relationship youâve/youâll ever have/had. Youâll clearly see his efforts to keep your relationship burning and alive, even through small acts that you might not even notice at first.
Cons
He has low confidence that might cause a few insecurities along the way. You have to constantly assure him that heâs done so much already and he shouldnât push himself too much. You also have to be really alert and sensitive with his emotions because he may have the tendency to keeps things in. Chances are, he will explode when his emotions reach a very high intensity.
This may also be the reason why he can be way too hardworking at times that he forgets to take care of himself. You have to be able to at least take care of him or convince him to stop and breathe.
I assume he takes more things in than he should. Saying no, especially to opportunities, proves to be difficult to him even if he has so much in his plate already. He wants to learn as much as he can, but due to this, he forgets to do things one at a time. You have to be able to convince him to stop when the things he has to do are stacking up into a mountain, or maybe be able to help him on your own way.
I feel like heâs someone who forgives but doesnât, or has a hard time to, forget about what happened. Like, heâs the type to hold long-term grudges, and if the two of you fight, he might be the type to remind you of your past mistakes that both of you have solved already. This might be really frustrating for you, so I think youâll need a lot of patience when you do come into a conflict.
When he says no, itâs final. Itâs rare for him to say no and he may be very lax as a boyfriend, but when he tells you no then he really means it. If you can be stubborn at times when this happens then you might raise heated conflicts at one point in your relationship.
Sorry it took so long, but itâs here! Hope yâall like it.
Also another heads up: March is my midterms month so yeah itâs either I study a lot or procrastinate a lot (w/c means faster updates I guess) and tbh I have two papers to pass tomorrow and two exams (one of which is organic chemistry and i want to cri).
Well on the bright side, Hoshiâs pros + cons is nearly done. Itâll be posted before my week ends most likely.Â
Earthquake warning in the Philippines
Okay so all of us have been warned and are trying to prepare for the so-called âBig Oneâ earthquake which is said to be really powerful and will strike us anytime now. Everyone please be safe and be careful, this is the official list for the emergency hotlines in the PH: http://www.gov.ph/emergency-hotlines/ and every part of the cities will have escape routes and meet up places. Please try to get to know them while you have the time.
Please study basic first aid and charge everything up and be ready.
My city is included in the list of cities that the earthquake will wreck havoc on so yeah, if I suddenly stop for like a month or so without any updates like this itâs probably because of the earthquake.
Everyone, please be safe.
Yâall I just want to rant: I have so much paperwork to do itâs ridiculous (well not really considering my major is really focused on paperwork) and Iâm so nervous because me and all of my thesis mates should have an average grade of 4 (5 is the highest) in all of our English classes and idk if Iâm going to make it which means weâll have to revise everything about our thesis and ioanefenaflij naiefjn ai
Imagine Seungcheol finding out that he has the âsirâ kink when you call him as such with innocent eyes while heâs in your house as a substitute Korean tutor.
pros & cons of dating Joshua please?
Disclaimer: All of these are just based on my sometimes-biased opinions and whatever I wrote below does not, in any way, completely and correctly describes Josh.
One more thing I noticed is that these pros and cons are based on what I consider as pros and cons. Some of the pros might be cons to you guys and vice versa, so please do take this with a grain of salt and remember that this is just for entertainment.
Joshua // Hong Jisoo
Pros
Joshua is very sensitive with your emotions and is alert when youâre feeling really down. Anxious, scared, terrifiedâhe can see through all of those and heâll know what to do to calm you down. He loves seeing you smile (and is probably his favorite sight on earth) so he does his best to make you as happy as he can. When youâre happy, heâs happy.
Heâs the type of guy whoâll definitely keep your favorites and dislikes in mind. Heâll remember them even if you just say something randomly like âI love potatoes so muchâ or âRound pastel balloons are so cuteâ while the two of you are out or something. He wants you to know that whatever you say will never fall on deaf ears and he wants you to feel as appreciated as you make him feel.
With this, heâs a really great listener. Heâs the type to let you speak your mind while your hands are entwined together, and heâll only speak when youâre done. Heâll do his best to make you feel better from anything that bothers you and at the same time make you a better person without crossing any limits (like he wouldnât speak harshly but heâll say the truth because he knows that itâs for the best).Â
Heâll also assure you that heâs always there for you on whatever you decide on, no matter if he doesnât like your decision or not. Heâs also literally the embodiment of the slightly overused quote âIâm not saying itâs going to be easy, but what Iâm saying is you wonât go through it aloneâ. Heâll be with you every step of the way because he knows youâll be there for him too.
He will tell you deeper secrets that he almost always keeps from everyone else. He trusts you well enough to let you in, but not enough to burden you with his problems. Heâs glad that he has someone he can lean on, especially since heâs part of the oldest hyung line in the group.
Culture-wise, Joshua is very open to differences as heâs been exposed to a lot. If youâre from a different culture, heâll be more than willing to learn it for you. He wonât restrict you from anything culture-related because he understands that what is not okay to his culture may be okay to some. BUT, heâll try to talk to you about something that really irks him in a civil manner so as to build a stronger connection and trust between the two of you.
And now that Valentines is coming up, heâll never forget to bring you flowers and chocolates and take you out (or really do anything what you want to do if flowers and chocolates are not your thing) and probably send a rose to your mother as well.
Heâs also probably the type to make anniversaries really special (and if youâd allow, month-saries) and he would most likely talk to his friends about what he can do next because he wants a new surprise every celebration.
Cons
If youâre not the type to lead, I think this might SLIGHTLY stress your relationship (but not heavily). Joshua isnât exactly the lead in the relationship even if sometimes he can be, so youâll have to be okay with taking the lead at times.
He might be too gentle, too, so if youâre more for an active, fun, and adventurous relationship, then I think you and Joshua might not be a bit compatible. Itâs not that heâs lazy or something, itâs just that he gives me the vibe that he prefers relaxing, lazy days rather than going out to parties or spending Friday nights in noisy clubs. Road trips would be nice once in a while for him, though, especially if youâre out in the wilderness with a van. But other than that, I canât really see him as someone whoâll be in an adventurous relationship.
Joshua tends to not speak his mind at times, hoping that his problems are going to solve themselves which may sometimes lead to much bigger problems. There are times that he might deem some problems as not important so he might not say them, and he doesnât want to burden you with them as much as possible. Youâll have to keep on reminding him that youâre always there for him and that his problems are never a burden to you.
Please try not to snap at Joshua. Be open to him as much as possible to prevent snapping out of built-up anger. Heâll think that heâs not doing enough for you and will avoid anything that will make you snap at all costs, which might form a small tension every now and then to the point that it might collectively build up, which might cost you your relationship.
Soonyoung, Jun, and Seokmin on the way! Hope this is good enough because I havenât been feeling good about my writing these days.
Pros & cons of dating mingyu pls thxâĽ
Disclaimer: All of these are just based on my sometimes-biased opinions and whatever I wrote below does not, in any way, completely and correctly describes Mingyu.
Mingyu // Kim Mingyu
Pros
Mingyu will always think about you. Always. This is a pro for you but is somewhat more of a con for his members because he just wonât shut up about you and him. âHey this was the place we ate ice cream at for our fourth dateâ, âCan you believe I have the best partner ever like I feel so bad for you all butâ, âHyung look do you think I should buy this for our anniversary?â and the iconic âMan Iâm just so in love withââ OKAY SHUSH THATâS LIKE THE MILLIONTH TIME WE GET IT
He will always make sure you feel content and loved. Heâll always remind you that youâre the reason why he smiles everyday and why heâs motivated to keep on working hard. He doesnât like it when you feel uncomfortable with the relationship so heâll do his absolute best to make your relationship work in the best way possible.
Heâs also the type to stand on your front door, trying to score a kiss after each date. Itâs not that heâll force you, but he literally wonât leave until you give him one (I donât think anyone will be able to resist puppy Mingyu okay itâs just impossible). Heâll drop you obvious hints like raising his eyebrows with a smug smile, pointing to his cheek or whatever in hopes of getting a kiss from you. If heâs feeling frisky, he might attempt to make it a kiss on the lips by turning his head when youâre just about to kiss him on his cheek.
He strikes me as the kind of guy to send you positive messages at random times of the day, and heâll always send you good morning and good night texts with lots of emoticons. He would also be the kind of guy whoâd randomly call you in the middle of the night because âI missed hearing your voiceâ even though you were just done talking to him on the phone three hours ago.
A picture of you that he took while you werenât looking as his cellphoneâs background picture? Yes. Pictures of him that he took while your phone was with him? Definitely. A selfie of you and him in his wallet? Absolutely.Â
Cliche I know but he will love to cook for you and/or teach you how to cook if you donât know how. Heâll tease you if heâs better than you but if not then heâll try to make it as a competition at times. Youâll probably just end up with a huge mess though because heâll try to sabotage yours as much as he can.
Mingyu loves surprising you a lot, whether it be during a special occasion or just a random day while you two are together. He knows how he spends less time with you than normal partners do because of his work, so he makes up for it with surprises. It can range from a simple picnic somewhere outside the city to a romantic, candle-lit dinner on a beach.
Lastly, heâs also very skinship-y. Aegyo-ish. Normally it would be the partner who behaves in a feminine way whoâll be doing most of the aegyo but trust me, Mingyu will do it way more than ordinary girls to. Heâd definitely flash you a sparkling, puppy eyes look when he asks for your permission to drink with his friends and all that, with a tight hug if you agree and a pout if you donât
Cons
He gives a lot in your relationship, but heâll expect you to return the same amount of love or something. Not necessarily the show of affection or aegyo, heâs fine with you brushing it off, but the act of giving towards each other. An example is when he skips a day of practice just to take care of you when youâre sick, so when itâs him whoâs sick, heâll expect you to stay at least a day with him and take care of him too. If you donât reciprocate this much, then heâll think heâs giving too much and might get tired with your relationship as he doesnât really get much from it (not that he expects to get some but a relationship should be a give and take not worshiped and woshiper kind of thing).
If youâre the type of person to not like surprises, then I guess you might get frustrated with Mingyu. He enjoys surprising his significant other in random times within the relationship because he enjoys his partnerâs shocked expressions, but if you express that you donât like surprises, it might make the relationship feel slightly dull. Itâs not that big and this wonât strain your relationship much, but if you completely brush his advances off, thatâs when itâll start turning really dull. It would be good to accept it now and then, like a birthday celebration or something.
Itâs not that heâd get sad if you donât return or just reject the skinship, but itâs more of you tolerating it if you donât like it. He teases a lot, too, and it might infuriate you at times.
Someone who religiously sticks to a certain schedule per day might not be a good match for Mingyu, unless youâre adventurous deep inside. He might also be too fast paced (no pun intended) for you to keep up at times if your lifestyle is more of a walk than a run kind of thing. Youâll have to tolerate his childish tendencies at times too.
He can get pretty stubborn when you both fight, and itâll always be a case of either his hyungs convincing him to apologize or you initiating it. No in between, so if you canât take that, then your relationship might not last for very long.
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pros + cons of dating scoups?
Disclaimer: All of these are just based on my sometimes-biased opinions and whatever I wrote below does not, in any way, completely and correctly describes Scoupstastu.
S.coups // Choi Seungcheol
Pros
When Seungcheol is in love, he is definitely 6 feet deep in love. Nothing else mattersâyour age, your appearance, your mannerisms, your flaws, nothing. I imagine heâs someone who focuses on how he feels about you and he doesnât see anything else other than that, so he wouldnât get your insecurities at times (but that wonât stop him from making you love yourself!).
Skinships skinships skinships. He loves glomping his significant other and he isnât afraid nor embarrassed to kiss you in public. Heâd love to hold your hands any time of the day. Heâs also one to give warm back hugs and cuddles and just be such a cute, tall human-Koala.
He is also caring, no doubt about that. Heâs always looking out for your well being and would always know what to do in situations like when youâre sick, when youâre on your period, and even just in plain, lazy mornings where both of you are doing nothing. I wouldnât be surprised if heâs the kind of guy who would wake up early just to make you breakfast and take good care of you after a pretty intense session the night before. Heh.
With that aside, he gives me the impression that he is pretty proud of your relationship. Sure, heâll be slightly nervous when he gets to meet your parents, but his confidence on his love for you overpowers it by a little bit which means youâll have a nice dinner with your family without the awkward atmosphere you were expecting.
Heâll make you experience stuff you wouldnât even dare think youâd do by yourself and heâll do it in a way youâre comfortable withâhe wouldnât force you but Iâm betting you he doesnât need to because youâll feel so assured that heâs there and heâs got you. Stuff like bungee jumping (if youâre acrophobic he wonât push it, of course), dancing to their choreography, singing, and all that stuff you havenât done before (but ofc not the extremes). He wants you to enjoy your life together with him.
He thinks before he acts. Would you like it if he acted this way? Would this be more beneficial for the two of you? He highly treasures your relationship and would be careful to not put any strain on it.
Iâve also noticed that heâs naturally mature, like, itâs not just because heâs the leader of SEVENTEEN but he gives off the feeling that heâs been mature way before that. (I think) someone whoâs naturally mature is sensitive to his/her significant otherâs feelings and is the one who consciously or unconsciously grounds the relationship (idk how to say it but kind of like the one who keeps it in place? Sets the borders justly? Idk).
Heâs also someone who strives to better himself and is always ready to talk about what youâre not comfortable with in the relationship. Heâs great at adapting and adjusting, but he also knows when to push his needs so he doesnât end up as the only one who gives between you two.
Cons
If youâre not one for skinship or PDA, then I think you and Seungcheol are going to have a bit of a problem. Itâs okay to set boundaries, but if you keep on stopping him almost all of the time, he might⌠I donât know, not feel the connection and your relationship might turn dull? Itâs not the deciding point for him, but he really enjoys being able to do it.
If you have a lot of insecurities, he might not be the best one to get advice from because, as Iâve said, heâs way too deep into the relationship that he just canât completely comprehend your insecurities. He doesnât see them so he doesnât understand why youâd pay attention to them. However, it would also make him feel that he has somewhat failed to be a good boyfriend to you and that he hasnât shown enough appreciation for you. This might stress him out and would try to seek advice to his members or his superiors.
When I mentioned he thinks before he acts, he really does think to the point that he might overthink at times. Youâll have to be able to at least sense if heâs overthinking again because he keeps it to himself and it might explode into a huge argument if it isnât dealt with while it was building up.
He can be too giving at times that he might forget himself. Even if heâs tired due to practice and schedules, heâd still try to make things up for the stuff he missed and would feel guilty for not being there most of the time. He loves his work but he loves you, too, and would probably unintentionally destroy his body on trying to hold both in the process. He needs to know when to rest and that youâll have to assure him that you love him and that he should focus on his career, too.
Speaking of heavy schedules, he might just suddenly snap at one point due to him being so tired, and heâd feel incredibly guilty for taking it out on you.
When the two of you get in an argument and give each other the silent treatment, itâll break you into pieces because youâll miss him so much. Youâll greatly miss your moments together, his texts, and most of all, him. Heâll make you fall so hard into the relationship with him that an argument may break you a lot, resulting to you into avoiding conflicts even though small ones are healthy for relationships. Having absolutely no conflicts may have a long-term negative impact on oneâs relationship, so itâll be bad if you avoid them at all costs.
I hope I did him some justice! Haha. I wrote this while birds were⌠I donât know, fighting or mating or whatever on my window and it was noisy af. I really enjoyed this so if anyone wants to request other members go right ahead!
Merry Christmas everyone!!!!
Remember that 13 gorgeous boys love you alongside their fan base (including me ofc) and I hope youâre enjoying your holidays and are drinking lots of hot cocoa and getting the best Christmas presents and feel awesome all throughout or probably get smashed like I am right now for drinking too much Soju and vodka
Everyone deserves a beautiful Christmas enjoy this day ok
So I kind of have ideas for a Christmas series... mostly drabbles tbh forgive me. Hopefully Iâll get all of them done before December ends with different fluffy plots so yâall can enjoyÂ
Starry night sky [SEVENTEEN Short Scenario]
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Pairing: Lee Jihoon (Woozi) x Unnamed!OC
Jihoon looked at the starry night sky, and he saw her doing the same.
Despite the exhaustion on his whole body after practicing the whole day, he couldnât take his eyes away from her. He knew of her as their new temporary stylist to fill in for their previous one who was currently on a maternal leave, and he never paid her any attention before, so why does she have all of it right now?