I’m struggling to concentrate or find motivation to do anything, especially work, atm. I’m just so hurt and upset and angry about my ex getting together with her. The whole thing just feels like such a slap in the face from both of them.
I know that you can’t help how you feel, but at the end of the day, they chose to pursue a relationship while still living with me, knowing the effect that would have on me.
The trouble is I don’t know how to talk to them about it, or even if that would be helpful. Telling them that they’ve hurt me and that I’m angry and I’m finding it very difficult to be around them and live with them isn’t going to help... They’re looking for a place already, they have been for months. They have both already expressed that they’ve felt unwelcome here or that they don’t feel like it’s really their home.
And it’s only going to make them want to spend less time around me if they know I’m angry and hurting and I’ve told them I can’t live with them. But I feel like that’s only going to make it worse, because... the two of them ignoring me or not wanting to spend time with me or not making me a priority and spending all their time together, alone in their room is what’s so hard. It makes me feel completely unwanted.
But I also struggle to be around them when we’re together because I can see how much they are in love and it just makes me so sad and angry.
