Saw you looking for asks, well here I am! I’m gonna claim the 🤦🏼♂️ emoji for myself I think. Oh btw I’m 30 years old, TMI question incoming
Ok, so here’s my question: I’m worried that I’m TOO attracted to my girlfriend. I know that sounds fucking stupid that’s why I’m asking this anon lol please just hear me out
So issue is, I cannot look at this woman. This has never happened to me before on this level and my sex drive is usually pretty low in the past, unless it’s the week around my period. There were times with past partners (very attractive partners!) that i basically was stone, with no interest in receiving at all
Until a few months ago. Now? I seriously cannot make EYE CONTACT with my current girlfriend without getting wet. This started happening about a week into dating her (once the flirting got comfortable basically) and it’s getting worse by the day. Any time I see her, I’m walking around in damp boxers. I’ve started keeping extras in my car which is insane. Keep in mind we are both 30, we are sexually active together and I was hoping my body would calm down some once I got used to her? 🤦♂️ NO, it’s actually gotten worse.
Today she FaceTimed me and it was seriously like literal torture. She was just talking to me and combing her hair and being super sweet….and I was literally sitting in a fucking wet spot in my boxers. This has NEVER been an issue before for me. Sometimes I can hear my heart beat in my ears it’s so intense. We’ve been dating three months and I’m dying to tell her I’m in love with her, but I was hoping to wait for my “lust” feelings to go away so I could be absolutely sure. My drive for her is through the roof still though and doesn’t show any signs of easing up
It’s never going away is what I’m worried about. So now what??? Should I keep holding back from saying I love her? 3 months isn’t a super long time I guess and maybe the horniness will ease up. Or should I just grow some balls and admit to her what’s going on down there??
I am so so stuck on this girl I cannot let anything go wrong please tell me anything that could help me
Bro I had a whole ass fucking this typed out and tumblr fucking shut out on me 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
I have a legit answer but I have to like…BRO I’m so mad lmaooooooooo I need to make a fucking voice note or some shit. You might be the reason I unearth my voice on this shit lmaoooo
TLDR, I would wait a hot second but I’m soooooo proud that you’re differentiating between love and lust. Often people dive headfirst into the idea of love. Buuuut there are some people who have fallen inlove after 4 months, some that should wait a second
I feel you should “never stop dating”. You should want to impress them while still having comfort in their opinion of you. You should always seek their friendship first, the person to be candid, the person to challenge you, the person to advocate for you in rooms your not in. Like I said, I had a whole good ass thing written and the tumblr timed out 🤬🤬🤬🤬 so fr imma make that effort for you. I just don’t want to chance it times out on me. So PLEASE keep an eye out for a reblog on this ask, cool?
