i hate this burning blue trend and people going “i can change him” and then it being “he changed me”. STOP GIVING MEN SO MUCH POWER AND CREDIT. oh my GOODNESS. most of the time they literally showing you they sorry asl & won’t be changing but y’all duck and dodge the signs (i’m guilty of this and speaking from experience) BUT CAN WE COLLECTIVELY STOP LETTING THEM KNOW THEY CHANGED US?? DAMN.












