#by themselves

[advena-perditus]

Inspired by @achairwithapandaonit

Conan rolling down the car window: What do you want KID?

Kaito twirling his (fake) mustache while wearing his full KID regalia: Ahh fellow adult, as you can see by my mustache I am not KID. I am ADULT and I need a ride.

Conan: ..........

Conan: Just don't get blood on the upholstery

[mayullla]

Mayu helphelp I wanna revamp my writing blog’s theme @/bamboowrites and I wanna learn 🥺🤲🏻🪤

look at other people's blogs that you admire and mix and match the ideas from there you would find something that you might be satisfied with.

consider if the BFY and DNI are absolutely important for your blog... some people just don't bother to read those things if they are in another link. having it on the pinned post above the masterlist link can help as they end up glancing at it just dont make it too long if you do.

now the theme itself depends on what you are going for but you can go for a. pick a theme like maybe cottagecore, gothic and such and build a mood board from it on Pinterest and from those pictures choose the colours for like the accent? b. would be picking the colors first (maybe a certain shade of color, or maybe a palette you like) and then the pictures. (another idea/way could be like a "3 words" too, like my main account theme @mayulli has a star, royalty, navy theme, but not necessarily galaxy tho. My reblog account @mayullii focused more on a princess fairytale pink.)

Build a pinterest board, everything usually starts from there to be honest lolll

Now for my own... uhhhhhhhhh okay this is mainly for the people who cant pick a theme and wants them all (or at least most)

A lot of people say that sticking to one theme and staying with it is a good idea and to be honest, they are not wrong, and absolutely right it is just that I don't like staying in one theme I guess lol? Example:

Something like this! Or-

Look at all those differences hehehe. Nowhere here do you see green forest themes except for like Diasomnia (twst)? And then I also have the borders of all my writing posts:

I have like probably over 100 fic/original oneshots by now all that uses the borders above which is like alot and gonna be supppperrrr tiring to edit everything if I think about swapping everything. (will cry if I must.) but one thing is very obvious in all the pictures is that all have this pastel, soft dark, neutral tones, and has a mix of flowers, nature/outdoor and vintage themes/vibes.

I tried to make the blog as colorful as possible with the mindset that I will be changing my blog theme often. I just made the blog take all the themes that I personally like and mix and match. The forest green I currently have matched well with all the leaves in the pictures above cause of the leaves of the flowers. With an odd one here and there, but it is not necessarily painful to the eyes.

For me, with all this, I have multiple options of things I like so from like a white background which I can make it look like a canvas where the pop of colors would be from the multiple masterlists, blue where you could call it the outside/sky and the posts are the flowers essentially a garden, dusty tones, most pastel colors but more so the neutral tones like both dark and light academia would be a-okay most of the time. princesses and fairytales also~

Now what would not match with everything here would be neon colors, most bold/bright colors (my heartslabyul dorm masterlist is suffering rn cause of that red), pure black, city street and downtown, sci-fi stuff would stick out like a sore thumb for me but they are themes that I don't care for much so it is fine.

It doesn't have to flower only, to be honest if you want you can go for something jewels which has an array of colors, or maybe fabrics/clothes as like the main theme. really just make a pin board and add everything that you like and pick all the common stuff they have with each other.

Ah! one more thing that probs might help but who knows but like as you saw my twst wonderland masterlists are all different colors. So I use gray as like a divider from the main theme and the dorms. I also did the same for General/multiple characters masterlist and school staff and other characters. The gray is like a refresh for the eyes in a way (like how you sniff coffee when you smell multiple perfumes so that the scent won't mix?) so that the color of my main theme and the masterlist theme won't mix/crash in the eye much.

Genshin is genshin lol but the colours matches well with the colours of the flowers i have so it is fine. my original works masterlist is white as it was part of the white theme that i had once before, but since it is not related to any fandom it is essentially my own empty canvas (lol) so i kept it like that, naruto masterlist is obviously yellow cause... naruto lolll

[astrono]

Okay just seeing the notification of ‘Jackbox with Tommy’ makes my unbelievably happy-

[peculiary]

Savage She-Hulk #9 October 10, 1980

[starchildange]

Christal: I’m so happy you said yes! I kind of thought maybe you would think it was too soon... I guess it would be SUPER crazy to get married right now too huh? *giggles* Sabrina: That WOULD be super crazy.. Christal: Super duper crazy... Sabrina: Let’s do it. 

[thisiskatsblog]

(1) Hi! :) I just saw the post you reblogged about the industry and the closeting, etc and I have a genuine question because I really don't understand and sorry if it's stupid sksksk- so if we take a louis, for example, his relationship with El are quite private and we know almost for a fact that they live together and go to a pubs together (locals saw them, not the fans),and plus the fans saw them together and kissing while no one was there...I don't think it's how a fake relationships works?

(2)Like with Danielle u could see that it was fake but with El it seems genuine, Louis even said that they went to see Jay together, why would Louis lie about that? Or they do all these things on purpose or something, to make he seem more genuine so people won't question it and definitely believe that they are together?

(3) like idk, to me it's easier to just do a pap walks every now and then but why would he live together with supposed beard? And go to a pubs and to clubs and stuff while no one there? That's just weird to me.

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Hi there

Nice to meet you and thanks for questioning with an open mind.

Of course, it’s clear I have a different opinion, and I’ll try to explain why. 

Louis’ relationship with Eleanor is not what i would call quite private - it kicked off with a very public, staged pap shoot - and early on there was much confusion on the start date of that relationship - they couldn’t seem to remember when the anniversary is or how they met (eg did Harry introduce them? Or not?)

“Almost know for a fact” they live together: how? For me, photographs with dogs are not proof of living together. I invite you to share other evidence and I’ll be happy to have a look at it. 

Please also feel free to share any hard proof you have found of them kissing “while no one was there” and going to pubs together. I am afraid I am not aware of it. 

On Louis lying: well, closeting involves lying, so he would lie about that, yes. And that’s done, indeed, to make it seem more genuine. That is the essence of what closeting is. Lying to make it look like you are in a relationship with a woman and therefore heterosexual. It’s not pretty. It is what it is. This is life for LGBTQ+ people, whether Louis is one of us or not: a choice between lying (in the case of some bi people in different sex relationships, like me, by omission) and potentially subjecting yourself to prejudice and/or abuse. That’s usually not what happens, most people are okay, and times have definitely changed, but it’s the culture we were raised in, and this impacts us. 

I honestly do not think he lives together with Eleanor. Suggestions are made to make it look that way. But as long as I have been following fandom, he has shown no genuine interest in her, he is more engaged with fans than he is with her. He defended her at the airport though: rightly so, and good for him. He is a decent guy. 

As to going to pubs and clubs “when there is no one there” - there is always someone there in those pubs and clubs as that’s how it gets to the fandom - and more often than not (but you’d have to point me to specific evidence of specific instances) fans have been tipped off that they will see Louis there. At least in the cases that I have seen, but again, feel free to show me otherwise.

I am sorry if this argument is vague, that’s in part because yours are equally general and vague - the more specific evidence you can point me to, the better I can answer you - depends on how much you want to know. 

Please also look at my bearding tag, and to other people who are much more knowledgeable and have much more to say about Eleanor, Elounor, and the entire bearding thing than I do. 

The thing is: don’t take it at face value. Dare to look at all the evidence - for Louis being with Harry and Louis being with Eleanor; And come to your own conclusions. 

Also: if you were Eleanor, would you take him back after having been publicly dumped by a kiss in a swimming pool coming out; your boyfriend then having gotten a one night stand pregnant, only to start dating Danielle, until he “came to his senses” and wanted you again? Is that the kind of guy you think Louis is? Or do you think he’s kind, and loyal, and not perfect, but someone who fights for his long time relationship with someone who is also his best friend and bandmate? That he has actually been proven to live with #welivetogetherdealwithit #alwaysinmyheartyourssincerelylouis.

[wolveria]

me going to look up my fave in their tag and 90% of the posts are shippy with little to no love for the character itself so i slowly start to hate all of these ships for no reason other than the fact i just wanted to enjoy my garbage child: