If you love the A & B relationship but don’t feel like you romo-ship A/B enough to hang with their shippers But it’s not that you dislike A/C exactly, it’s just that it isn’t your favorite ship either and you can’t deal with it being as ubiquitous, taken for granted, and treated with such intense, “this is the One True Ship and not loving it as such is Wrong” as it kinda seems to be with most of their shippers (which admittedly could just be your own anxiety, your own hypersensitivity, or your own inability to tell when a lot of people are joking, but whatever it is, it’s scary) But you have no earthly idea where all of the A/D, C/D, and A/C/D shippers are hiding, or if you wouldn’t have to pretend to like A/C more than you actually do in order to hang with them, due to how there is probably some overlap between them and the A/C shippers But you also don’t know if you feel like you can hang with the A/B shippers because, even if you didn’t feel weird for sitting there with your non-romantic shipping, they might feel like you’re judging them and/or going to treat them like shit for romo-shipping A/B by virtue of how you don’t personally romo-ship them, and you don’t want to attack anyone or unintentionally make them feel bad because of how you love the relationship as much as the A/B shippers do, you just personally don’t see it as romantic But you also just kind of want to cry about A & B hugging each other and crying and having a lot of Feelings, and it’s sad and kinda frustrating not to know where you’re supposed to do that in any given fandom spaces without somehow causing trouble for somebody or getting into it yourself, but not in fun the, “you had some Sad Headcanons™ and made people feel a lot of things, about 85% of which involved demanding to know why you are making them feel those things” kind of way Then at what time will train #17 reach Plumville Station and deliver Miss Scarlet to her defense attorney, solve for X, show your work (/sarcasm)
