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callingvalhal replied to your post: “Tessa Thompson reveals MCU Valkyrie is bisexual” ...
Ngl that would really help me cope with never seeing Sif and Thor together in the mcu
right? so i can’t have my otp for sif but i get my top gay ship for her instead? SIGN ME UP.
callingvalhal replied to your post: also the world basically exists to deny me...
I rped Natasha Romanoff and Pepper Potts and I could never find anyone to rp nat/pepper :(
that is CRUEL and UNUSUAL punishment. marvel rp was always lacking in the gay ladies department and i still resent that. Sif managed some random ass relationships with men but not one damn valkyrie!!!!!!!!
callingvalhal replied to your post: “As a shortish person I hate tall people especially Really tall people...”:
As a tall person I sometimes feel the same way about short people. Why haven't you finished growing? What happened to you?
them’s fighting words!!
meet me in the parking lot
callingvalhal
damn i heard all that stuff too and then when i actually had my first pap smear i was like...thats it??? now transvaginal ultrasounds on the other hand...........
I DONT EVEN WANT TO THINK ABOUT TRANS VAGINAL ULTRASOUNDS
@callingvalhal replied to your post:I just calculated the amount of fabrics and...
this is why I haven’t made anything lately. Everything I want to make is so pretty and I don’t want to settle on crappy fabric :(
I’m dogsitting in the next couple weeks and saving up for this particular project with the money from that, but it’s still going to hurt my wallet :’) especially since it’s a fully cartridge pleated skirt made from heavy quality linen :c
callingvalhal replied to your post: anonymous asked:As someone who's ...
I didn’t see this until now. I still disagree with the over simplification because your post does seem to imply that it’s a super simple solution but I recognize now that you didn’t mean that.
Absolutely not. The mechanics of mental problems and such are very complicated. I definitely grasp this.
My own anxiety/abuse trauma resulted in a self-harming/destructive personal habit where I picked at my skin and hair until it bled and engaged in maladaptive daydreaming and weird mental tics that bordered on OCD. HOWEVER, I was also able to go “well, shit, this isn’t good” with absolutely nobody telling me otherwise, and redirect my own obsessive impulses into less destructive repetitive calming behaviors/coping mechanisms without any access to anything. Smokers have industries aimed at them to stop smoking. I linked to four sites that give free help. You can buy nicotine patches instead of cigarettes. There are ways to stop. It’s not always simple, but people have done it because sometimes you have to do things that are hard to fix your bad choices.
I will grant that smoking is not quite trich. Smoking requires you to go and buy the product you’re self-medicating/habiting with. I didn’t have to go buy my fingers. Smoking causes secondhand smoke and makes other people sick. Nobody ever secondhand picked. Smoking destroys your lungs, teeth, throat, and heart. Trich just destroys your skin and makes you bald and patchy.
The argument that “it’s just a coping mechanism and therefore it’s, like, ableist to like tell people?? they’re gonna get cancer??” is absolutely fucking ridiculous. Something being a coping mechanism isn’t going to stop the consequences of your actions especially if the activity is harmful. Is my trich a coping mechanism? Yep. Did my body magically go “hey this is bad for us we shouldn’t do that Carrie’s going to magically stop bleeding now every time she digs into her face!!!” nO. Because that’s NOT HOW THIS WORKS
henrys86 replied to your post: ”I hate math..”
never trust someone who loves math
Math is evil. :c
callingvalhal replied to your post: “I hate math..”
what math are you in? Do you want help?
Psychological statistics and thank you for the offer. I really appreciate it :) but I already took the exam so :/
callingvalhal replied to your post:so im going to count today as day 1 in workout....
If you need a workout buddy at some point or just someone to help encourage you then I’ll be available :) Good luck!
Thanks!!! that means a lot! I wont give up!
