Mfw I get all dysphoria except for bottom dysphoria and I'm half convinced I'm nonbinary or I'm faking and then I feel shitty
Well, a lot of trans guys’ dysphoria and I mean a lot is focused on their chests and also a lot of trans guys get very little bottom dysphoria. They say once you get top surgery you’ll start having more bottom dysphoria. Personally my bottom dysphoria isn’t so bad (thank god, because I’m a horny bastard), it just gets ugly from time to time but most days is bearable. I also experience phantom dick a lot, so that’s also a thing.
Also I have a theory for this and it’s that “social” dysphoria increases good ol’ sex dysphoria, so the things that you know people can notice about you when they see you are the things you’ll feel more dysphoric about. For example my top dysphoria is awfully painful because I’m a D cup and I can’t bind properly most of the time, my body shape dysphoria is also awful because I have pronounced hips and people notice that immediately, and so with voice dysphoria and facial dysphoria and even my hair and stuff like that! People don’t tend to stare at others’ crotches so they’re less likely to notice someone’s lack (or presence) of penis (unless it’s painfully obvious like having a full on boner or something lmao). But that’s just a theory... a trans theory!
So don’t feel bad about that, dude- actually it’s good that you don’t have bottom dysphoria because it sucks ass.
But also keep in mind that figuring oneself out is a long journey and that’s ok. I’m no psychologist so that’s the only advice I can provide, so if you feel like it ask more people and even ask yourself some stuff.
