http://carmen1969stuff.tumblr.com/post/133095282279/her-highness-and-baby-sightings
“But I can’t help to get quite angry and annoyed at it as it seems to go on and on and I feel harassed.”
This really says it all, right? Poor Carmencita feels that Benedict’s private life is out to get her.
Well, I have some news for you, Carmen:
- It’s not Benedict’s fault that you do not want to accept that he’s married.
- It’s not Ben’s fault that you do not like Sophie.
- It is not Benedict’s fault that you are a misogynistic asswipe who accuses Sophie of the most heinous acts just because you can’t deal with the fact that she’s the one he chose to marry.
- It’s not Benedict’s fault that you think he’s a spineless moron that can get tricked into marrying and faking a baby just for show.
- It’s not Benedict’s fault that you are so deep in denial that would rather believe that a woman faked a pregnancy (but only you lot could tell it was fake) rather than deal with the idea of Ben being intimate with her.
- It’s not Ben’s fault that you decided out of spite that his marriage was just a publicity stunt for awards season and now you are outraged because it’s blatantly obvious that he married her because he wanted to.
- It’s not Benedict’s fault that you have arbitrarily decided that Sophie must be a broke bitch and a goldigger, who is blackmailing Benedict into submission to get his money, when all the evidence points to the contrary.
- It’s not Benedict’s fault that you have decided to demean, mock, and ridicule his wife’s accomplishments because you feel the almost pathological need to shame her to feel better about your own shortcomings. It’s also not his fault that you have decided to confuse the information that has been put out there by an overinvested fan and reporters who don’t factcheck with her actual CV.
- It’s not Ben’s fault that you decide to body shame his wife, judge her every move and fashion choice, and assume the worst possible behaviour from a handful of pictures that only depict a fraction of a second in time.
- It’s not Benedict’s fault that a handful of women old enough to know better have decided to act like petulant children throwing a tantrum because their favorite toy isn’t acting the way they expected him to.
- It’s not Ben’s fault that you are so lost in your own fantasies that have become convinced that you have some kind of influence in his life and behaviour. It’s not his fault that you are displaying worrying symptoms of erotomania, thinking that he is trying to communicate with you and that he actually gives a fuck about what you have to say about him.
What really is insulting and pathetic here is that you’ve been doing this for a year, not a single thing that you predicted would happen has actually happened, and yet you have convinced yourselves that you are right and Benedict is living a lie and his career is in shambles.
Of course, if another year passes, and Benedict keeps working, is still married to Sophie and they are happy with their son... it will also be his fault, right?
Finally, if you feel so victimized and harassed by the situation, you can always move on with your life. Nobody is forcing you to stalk their every move and comment on it. What are you still doing here if this situation makes you so unhappy?