cassidyjames replied to your post: I meant to write about this earlier but I got...
I know this is a crazy thought, but maybe he meant it as a compliment? I didn’t see it so I can’t see his facial expressions or hear his tone, but I know people will refer to people, particularly women, as young as a compliment. Just a thought.
See, I don't have a problem with people being called young lady in general and I know that it can be really complimentary. I just feel like in this setting it wasn't appropriate. Why would he keep "complimenting" the one player and not the others?
I also think the way he kept using it was almost like he was saying "You're doing a great job!... for a young lady" instead of just saying "You're doing a great job!" I don't know why he kept having to point it out.
I found it demeaning. I wish I could actually talk to the woman and see what she thought. Maybe she did take it as a compliment and it boosted her confidence or something. But (and I could be biased) I thought she looked like she was kind of annoyed.