the way nicky and aaron talked about andrew off his meds is exactly the way dog people talk about cats.
“you dont know what he was like off his meds… he was scary and violent.” and then he goes off his meds and is just incredibly quiet and wants to be left alone.
exact energy as ppl crying cats are “unpredictable and will scratch you for no reason” while disrespecting every boundary the cat has put in place. there’s a fundamental misunderstanding happening.
andrew minyard is a cat. in this essay i will—














