#caveat:

[ivan-fyodorovich-k]

Fellas if you go through life failing to hype yourself your modesty will not be rewarded in this life

Take from this what you will

[thetaoofbetty]

six-ish sentence sunday

i am starting to work on what you wanted, @melimelrockswell1204, promise! 

“Wake up, love,” he whispered, pushing her hair off her face while her sleepy eyes opened and focused on him. 

“Jug?” Blinking, she stretched like a cat before smiling. “What are you doing here?” 

“I think you know.” Taking her hand, he helped her stand and took her in, the little black dress, the heels, the almost smudged lipstick on her mouth. “Don’t you?” 

She lifted her chin, staring at him in silent defiance. 

Turning her around, he ran his thumb across her jaw gently, tilting her head back. “You ignored my text.” 

“Did I? I must have forgotten,” she answered breathlessly, her thighs shifting together. 

“Don’t lie to me.” He exhaled, still running his fingers along her throat. “You know I expected an answer. Didn’t you?” 

 She fought a shiver and licked her lips. “Maybe. But it’s not like you can make me.” 

“Oh, Elizabeth,” he said, slipping his free hand across her waist to pull her against him so he could brush his nose against her cheek. “I think I can.”

[wh4thefnk]

ahhh to have a husband who pays for multiple houses, vacations so you don’t have to not worry about anything

٩( ᗒᗨᗕ )۶ that probably being one of the reasons she can “focus on what roles not to do” and “work within her silence” not her lackluster acting work, the other girlies gotta have their hands out in Hollywood cause they actually have to pay rent.

Don’t hate the player, hate the game! (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧

[transnebulas]

I legit was panicking this morning over something that if I’d stopped to think for half a second about I’d have realized wasn’t going to be a problem for me at all and it took my partner being like “ok but what about x?” for me to remember it existed

anyway wow I’m lucky they’re morosexual

[saltandlimes]

my whole life i've always been really indifferent/undecided about having kids. they kind of feel like something i'll never be fully prepared for, and i'm not good with children at all. my partner, meanwhile, is completely, 100% against having kids. none. and even though it feels like we're mostly on the same page, I feel kind of weird letting them make that decision for me. i'm worried i'll always feel like i made the wrong choice, even if it's ultimately the right one.

It sounds like even if your partner didn’t want to have children, you wouldn’t be interested in them right now. It also sounds like they don’t want children, and you don’t want to have children without them.

I’d say that’s not them making the choice for you, that’s you actively choosing to stay in a relationship where there is no chance of having children with your partner. As much as you love your partner, if you desperately wanted children, you could leave your partner, and find someone who also wanted them. You’re not doing that. So you are making a choice. You do have agency here.

And that’s a great choice to make. If you don’t feel ready or interested in having children, and you don’t feel like you’re good with them, it’s super ok not to have them. If, at some point later in your life, you wish you did, it is always possible to adopt, or to foster an older child. This isn’t a “forever and ever” decision, especially given all the children in the world who need families. Do what’s best for you right now, and if that changes in the future, so be it.

[It’s Sleepover Saturday]