#changing personality

[skylerchasesbooks]

It's so interesting how the things or people we dislike at one point of time can become our favorite or vice-versa. It's like

U didn't like a certain book 2 years ago and now it's ur favorite or u liked a song that was the hype 10 years ago.

People change and with the experiences we amass, our choices and affinities do too.

[oldtvlover]

All right, I start again with a fascinating and somewhat distraught movie named The Possession of Joel Delaney from 1972! Cast: Shirley MacLaine - Norah Benson and introducing Perry King - Joel Delaney David Elliot - Peter Benson Lisa Kohane - Carrie Benson and many more 

Story: Norah, a divorced mother of two kids, takes care as well of her younger brother, Joel, yet he seems to be different from time to time, with speaking Spanish and all. Like a different man. Yet Norah still protects him after Joel attacks a man and lands in an asylum. From then it goes slowly down. He doesn't take care of his niece and nephew anymore and just is obsessed. It goes that far with killing people, beheading them and more, and at the very end he even threatens his own family. Making them dance, take off their clothes, eat dog food and more - until Norah sends her kids away and Joel still follows. An officer shoots him, yet Norah leans over him as he died and takes the knife. Is the possession now in her? Wow, what a movie! As said above, fascinating and distraught at the same time. Perry King plays well here. His first big role. No words.

To be honest, I wouldn't have played a kid in that movie. *shudder*

There are trailer but also the complete movie on Youtube - when you log in. Age verification necessary.

This is my second round and here I followed the release years!

[mental-health-advice]

Is there anyway to change certain aspects of your personality as an adult? There are certain things I really want to change but I honestly don't think it's possible at this point. I still feel like a child but I'm an adult. I should be self assured, know what I'm doing, and who I am by now, but I always feel like I'm somehow trying to seek approval through people pleasing behaviours and conflict avoidance. How do I stop this? How do I even set boundaries when I always question my own judgement?

Hey there,

This is a really good question to ask! As you have already mentioned, I think it can be quite hard to change aspects of your personality – it is your personality that makes you, you after all! But with this being said I guess anyone can slightly modify their personality to help shape the person you may want to be/ become in life. But as a whole no I don’t think you can change certain aspects of your personality if that makes sense?

If it helps at all I am in my early 30’s and despite living alone for many years and having responsibilities in life I still somewhat look up to others for help and reassurance and still get my parents to do a lot for me. I think sometimes it can just take some people a while longer to adapt to being an adult and solely rely on themselves and not other people. It’s also important to remember that it’s more than OK to ask for reassurance from others or help at any time. No one expects you to go through life alone. It can also take a while to find your feet and know what you want to do/ be in life, sometimes it can take a life time to figure that out and this is also more than OK!

In terms of working on trying to stop this behaviour of seeking approval from others and trying to set some boundaries, I don’t think there is any one thing you can do. It just takes time, so please don’t be too hard on yourself. Just try to take things day by day and try to work on doing the things you like and enjoy doing. And remember that we are all social beings and so it’s completely normal to want to please others and be assured you are doing a good job no matter how old you are!

I hope that this has helped a bit and please know that I am thinking of you. I hope that you’re going OK!

Take care,

Lauren

[mentalbooy-blog]

Don't ask the days when will I change, just change yourself right now.

M6sta

[stannamarsh]

MBTI

My personality changes on the daily it seems and I don't know why. ISFP yesterday, ISTP today. Yesterday I was having a fucking panic attack so that could be why.

[healthaim]

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[signerj]

Anyone else feel like a different person each day and like you're just along for the ride?