#charmolipi

[andromacheofappalachia]

Having someone comment on Charmolipi that the story is pro-nesta/anti-rhysand and that nesta is an unreliable narrator due to her hatred for rhysand um....did you not read the tags??? Baby this isn't canon 😭 this is Nesta x Rhysand with Nesta stepping into unknown territory where she is being told to not trust anyone. My name sure as hell ain't SJM

[elladastinkardiamou]

Filotimo & Charmolipi: Two Greek Words that Carry a Special Meaning

It is generally known that the Greek language is as difficult as it is fascinating In Greek, we use a variety of words which cannot be adequately translated to other languages, as they describe complex feelings, virtues or situations. Two of our favorite are the words 'filotimo' and 'charmolipi'.

Filotimo “Filotimo” is a compound word, made up of two parts. The first means friend' ('filos') and the second honor ('timi'). Therefore, this characteristic -another Greek word!- describes someone who is a friend with honor', who has a strong sense of honor in their life and social behavior. For Greeks, 'filotimo' is a really essential virtue. It has to do with the respect you have for others, the way you keep your promises and the gratitude you feel for those who stand by you. It is actually a way of life, describing the quality of being trustworthy and decent in your actions and decisions.

Charmolipi 'Charmolipi' is another compound word -we sure have tons of them- made by 'chara' (joy) and 'lipi' (sadness). “Charmolipi” describes a feeling we all have experienced at least once in our lifetime. It is the feeling you have in a situation which is both sad and joyful at the same time. For example, how would you feel if you were about to move from your house to a new one? You would feel sad about leaving the home you had had for the past few years and all the memories you have in it, but you would also feel great joy for your new beginning. See? You feel 'charmolipi'!

These two words are being used to describe peoples' feelings and are important to the Greek culture. Of course, as you probably already know, there are many more Greek words in the English vocabulary, such as 'phobia', 'energy', 'anarchy', 'philosophy', 'angel', 'pirate', 'air' and many, many more. However, we won't tire you with going into detail about them. You have 'My Big Fat Greek Wedding' for that!

[andromacheofappalachia]

Chapters: 5/? Fandom: A Court of Thorns and Roses Series - Sarah J. Maas Rating: Explicit Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Nesta Archeron/Rhysand, Nesta Archeron & Rhysand, Elain Archeron & Feyre Archeron & Nesta Archeron, Elain Archeron/Lucien Vanserra, Feyre Archeron/Original Male Character(s) Characters: Nesta Archeron, Rhysand (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Feyre Archeron, Elain Archeron, Lucien Vanserra, Eris Vanserra, Cassian (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Azriel (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Morrigan (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Original Characters Additional Tags: fated mates, bonded mates, chosen mates, Spitefic?, Spitefic, No One Is Perfect, More tags to be added as we go, Rhysta Weekend 2025, This will definitely expands beyond the weekend unfortunately, Body Horror, Psychological Horror, Morally Grey Character Is Morally Grey, Dubious Ethics, Emotional Infidelity, Rhysand isn't evil, Nesta has trust issues with everyone, Don't Like Don't Read Summary:

Charmolipi: the joy that emerges out of the middle of sadness and the sadness that merges out of joy: an integrated feeling that cannot exist without both sorrow and joy, dwelling together and giving rise to each other. . . . In finding a way to break her mating bond, Nesta ends up forging a path that she didn't expect to walk as she uncovers some hard and inevitable truths of what it means to be fae and the hands that are dealt for chosen paths.

CHAPTER FIVE IS HERE :)

[andromacheofappalachia]

Nesta's dress for Charmolipi

[andromacheofappalachia]

Chapters: 4/? Fandom: A Court of Thorns and Roses Series - Sarah J. Maas Rating: Explicit Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Nesta Archeron/Rhysand, Nesta Archeron & Rhysand, Elain Archeron & Feyre Archeron & Nesta Archeron, Elain Archeron/Lucien Vanserra, Feyre Archeron/Original Male Character(s) Characters: Nesta Archeron, Rhysand (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Feyre Archeron, Elain Archeron, Lucien Vanserra, Eris Vanserra, Cassian (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Azriel (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Morrigan (A Court of Thorns and Roses), Original Characters Additional Tags: fated mates, bonded mates, chosen mates, Spitefic?, Spitefic, No One Is Perfect, More tags to be added as we go, Rhysta Weekend 2025, This will definitely expands beyond the weekend unfortunately, Body Horror, Psychological Horror, Morally Grey Character Is Morally Grey, Dubious Ethics, Emotional Infidelity Summary:

Charmolipi: the joy that emerges out of the middle of sadness and the sadness that merges out of joy: an integrated feeling that cannot exist without both sorrow and joy, dwelling together and giving rise to each other. . . . In finding a way to break her mating bond, Nesta ends up forging a path that she didn't expect to walk as she uncovers some hard and inevitable truths of what it means to be fae and the hands that are dealt for chosen paths.

The new chapter for Charmolipi is here!

[puddingandburger]

Joy and Sorrow

There's a word in Greek, χαρμολύπη (charmolipi). It's one of those words that's hard to translate. Someone online tried: "the sadness that emerges out of joy" or "the joy that emerges in the middle of sadness." But I feel it’s more than the causality or direction; it’s about the struggle itself. The coexistence of joy and sorrow—the battle between them. Being full and empty, all at once. --

I’ve talked to many people about her lately—basically my inner circle, my people. I don’t do that usually, at least not to this extent, but I felt I had to. Over the last years, I’ve caught myself being more open with them. I let go of more thoughts and emotions, let them access to parts of my psyche. I don’t know why this gradual change is happening. Is it part of maturity or a bonding mechanism? Most of them live far away for years now. Time and space is compressed. Our moments together are valuable; I have to use them wisely. There’s no time to waste on slow discoveries, I give it to them ready. --

–How are you? –I don’t know.

Everyone was caught off guard. Most of them never met her; we didn’t have the time. But they understand what she was to me. What she is to me. They know me. They are afraid. They care. They are intrigued. They are good friends, I am lucky in that. Charmolipi. -- "You’re a lucky man; you should be happy. Do you know how many men struggle with not having these things? Women love you, want you. You’re dealing with relationships, while others deal with just accepting themselves. For many, their only lovers are their addictions, alcohol, drugs. It’s a problem, sure, but it’s also a blessing," @nanalacana noticed. She usually does. She was a bit tipsy, trying to cheer me up. She's the second person telling me I am lucky with this. They know, but they don't. Charmolipi. -- We are careful, investigating territories of closeness. I got angry for a moment; she felt bad. It wasn’t at her—it was at the situation. I understand her. She knows. We are allies now, standing together against the cruelty of the past. Charmolipi. -- I’m glad you walked into my room that morning. We both needed it, even if it triggered more of this damn charmolipi.

[3leni]

can i be added to your taglist?

of course 🥰

[3leni]

Can I be added to your charmolipi pretty please?? Btw I can’t wait to read more!! Even from chapter 1 I’m getting nostalgic from my childhood in Greece and I love you you incorporated a Greek name into the reading!! Your writing is phenomenal as well!!

you have no idea how giddy and happy this makes me, especially that i managed to make u nostalgic (which was what im going for)!!!! thank you so much for ur words, and you've been added! <33