This is. Why? I really hope this person can see how this is harmful instead of putting a funny label to it.
Feel like you should be is the same wanting it, to a point, if you put a silly label to it. No you technically don't want it, but putting a label to it doesn't help? If you don't want it why put a silly label to it?
I get it's to cope but. I'm not going to say Im "cisgroomed" to cope with that shit. I'm not "cis[x]trauma".
I do hope these people can see how making these transIDs can see how they are harmful, to both actual survivors and themselves.
And to the radqueers that follow me, I understand what you do is to cope. But when actual survivors talk to you please listen to them. Also, things like your trauma and triggers should be private. Unless you are okay with them and have worked through them to the point they don't bother you anymore, those should be private. Please acknowledge how these kinds of transIDs can be harmful to your mental health in the long run.