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ChangeQueer: a pro change, anti harassment movement symbols: ⛓️‍💥🌈 chain for change, rainbow for queer

[changequeer]

Hello! You can call me Ratz, my main blog is @ratzinacoatvr and we made ChangeQueer and Cheesequeer!

ChangeQueer is a stance about how the world isn't black and white, and how people can change. It's anti radqueer and endo, but embraces how people can be redeemed and change ways. See the coining post for expanded info!

Cheesequeer is the same as Changequeer but with embracing cringe and being cheesy! See it's coining post for more!

About me:

🩵 I'm a DID system

🩷 I use I/me and We/Us interchangeably

🤍 I'm alterhuman, rat cambikin collectively

🩷 I have ADHD, suspected Autism. Both medically recognized.

🩵 We are Agender/Spikegender + Achillean

DNI:

Tldr; no dni, just be nice. Follow the "do onto others as you have them do onto you" rule.

Okay gonna be honest here. While changequeer is anti radqueer and anti-endo, I am okay with this blog being a DNI free zone AS LONG as those who this blog/term is against are understanding and nice. If you come into this blog angry and harassing me, I will attack back. If you ask questions and are nice, I will be nice back.

[ethiqueer]

Hi! I'm Violet. So, I've coined a little term called Ethiqueer. In short, it stands for Ethical Queer, which aims to help people who may have made poor decisions in the past recover from them and heal. We strive to make the world a better place and give voices to those who need it.

This term means a lot to us, and we've put tons of time into it, trying to get everything perfect. Not everything is set in stone, and we're more than happy to hear everyone's opinion on what should be added, removed, or changed. We're genuinely interested in what's best for everyone and what can help people feel safer in our community. That said, do let me introduce our stances.

What we are in support of (+) ﹒Furries, Otherkin, Therians, Alterhumans, Transspecies, ETC. ﹒EDUCATED self-diagnoses ﹒All people can recover, even those with "The Big 3" paraphilias. If they are trying to recover, encourage them, do not tell them to die ﹒Recovery. People deserve second chances ﹒Mass reporting of harmful people (Whether it be an anti-recovery radqueer, predator, groomer, ETC. We should be reporting rather than harassing them) ﹒All forms of Queer / LGBT+ (This does not include transids or other radqueer ideologies. Those can rot in a ditch) ﹒To be cringe is to be free. Don't let people stop you from being who you are. You're awesome, and I'm proud of you ﹒Destigmatization of non-sexual nudity (Such as in art) ﹒Helping people find proper education and learn how to be better ﹒Abortion, Freedom of Speech, Feminism ﹒Speaking out against those who are harmful or making bad choices ﹒Justice for those who were wronged ﹒CONSENTUAL kink, paraphilias, and fetishes ﹒Living your life how you desire, provided you are not harming anyone or yourself in the process What we are against (-) ﹒Radqueers, Xenosatanists, MOST TransIDs ﹒Contradictory Labels (Specifically male lesbians and female gay men; I can go deeper into this if asked) ﹒Endogenics, Willogenics, any type of 'non-traumagenic system' ﹒Pro / Darkshippers, Lolicons + Shotacons, ETC. ﹒Those with harmful paraphilias that are not seeking help and looking to recovery, as well as those who are pro-contact harmful paras ﹒AI users, racists, homophobes / transphobes, antisemitists, ETC. ﹒Harassment of any kind ﹒Religious discrimination (We ourselves are Satanists AND Hellenic Polytheists, as well as have beliefs outside of that. We're happy to share if asked) ﹒Non-consentual actions, coercion, or doing things you know the other person will not like / approve of ﹒Transspecies + Transgender being treated as RQ terms ﹒Bigotry, Truscum, Transmeds ﹒Adult Attracted Minors / Minor Attracted People ﹒Sexualization of age regression and pet regression (Such as DDLG / MDLB, Dualcom, Ageplay, Petplay, ETC.)

Onto the symbolism, lads. Ethiqueer is consistantly represented by the seedling and scale emojis,(🌱⚖️) which to us represent constant growth, change, & recovery, as well as freedom, balance / equality, justice, and education. These are all things that we feel strongly for, and we're proudly open and loud about them. The flag, believe it or not, represents things as well. While it seems plain, there are reasons we designed it the way we do. Let me explain;

SHADES OF RED ,, The shades of red represent the fact that change looks different in everyone, that time can help people grow & be better people. Recovery doesn't look the same for everyone, and the shades show that.

RAINBOW SCALE ,, This symbolizes queer acceptance in society, equal rights, gay marriage, and things of a similar variety. The reason for it being slightly transparent is to show a lack of these things. All over the world, we are not socially accepted, and we should be. We need to fight for this.

The only thing that doesn't really have a meaning is the circle in which the scale sits on. I mostly added it so it'd look nicer, and I'll be fully open about that. It took hours to figure out how I wanted to design my flag, and I'm genuinely happy with how it turned out, as am I happy about how my term has turned out so far. I look forward to seeing how my little community will grow and provide a safe space for people.

< Stamp Borders made by @/cheriisoda / everything else made by me > If I may mention, our friend coined Stonedqueer, which we adore, and heavily agree with the principles of. Go check it out, as we think if you like our term, you'll like theirs as well. There was also one more that we wanted to mention, but we're waiting on feedback to let us know if we're allowed to. Will update if we do get that permission:)

[changequeer]

This is. Why? I really hope this person can see how this is harmful instead of putting a funny label to it.

Feel like you should be is the same wanting it, to a point, if you put a silly label to it. No you technically don't want it, but putting a label to it doesn't help? If you don't want it why put a silly label to it?

I get it's to cope but. I'm not going to say Im "cisgroomed" to cope with that shit. I'm not "cis[x]trauma".

I do hope these people can see how making these transIDs can see how they are harmful, to both actual survivors and themselves.

And to the radqueers that follow me, I understand what you do is to cope. But when actual survivors talk to you please listen to them. Also, things like your trauma and triggers should be private. Unless you are okay with them and have worked through them to the point they don't bother you anymore, those should be private. Please acknowledge how these kinds of transIDs can be harmful to your mental health in the long run.

[radnormal]

fake ass demons everywhere yall didn’t even try , fucking larpers you didnt even change the flag

rn has already left its mark and shall be forever known as what it first was , not to mention, this mf is a god damn transnazi yea like Ok as if your opinion ever mattered in the first place you God damn Nazi

[changequeer]

Ah yes. Recoining RN to be the exact same as RQ. They are smart- definitely-

[syscutie]

what the fuck is radnormal am i missing out on something

/nm just curious

[thee-butcherbirds]

Radnormal is a movement directly opposed to radqueers.

(link to coining post)

There are some people (like me, Im a bit biased) that take issue with the term due to multiple different reasons. I've seen criticism against the name, saying that it comes off weird, with some people saying it comes off as queer phobic and others ableist.

My issues with it is, the stance says it's against harassment, but fully endorse and support harassing "predators" "pedophiles", etc. Anyone can have a completely different definition of what a "predator" is. Supporting harassment period is not okay in our book, let alone endorsing harassment against "predators", of which the community largely thinks of ANY paraphile as.

Which is not at all something we personally want to support. The creator SAYS that they understand that not all paraphiles are horrible people, but they continue to harm ALL paraphiles with their community making fun of and condemning paraphilias in general. It's not a community we personally want to be a part of, but we understand the sentiment of being against radqueers.

[changequeer]

All ill add to this is there are branches off of radnormal! While I use radnormal tags I also don't like the harassment that some radnormals have. I'm fully anti harassment and that's why I decided to branch off! Theres also cleanqueer and radabnormal that are also anti harassment, pro recovery, while still being anti radqueer.

[changequeer]

Hey radnormal community and those adjacent to it! Theres a blog @/radicalisted who is doing an "unbiased block and follow list of self proclaimed radicalists"

If you don't like being put on lists either block them or see if you've already been put up and request to be taken down!

I personally don't like lists like this as it can lead to unnecessary harassment, even if it's in good faith.

[changequeer]

They reblogged my main too! Wow! I sent them two asks to take them down. Nothing. I asked nicely to.

[changequeer]

Hey radnormal community and those adjacent to it! Theres a blog @/radicalisted who is doing an "unbiased block and follow list of self proclaimed radicalists"

If you don't like being put on lists either block them or see if you've already been put up and request to be taken down!

I personally don't like lists like this as it can lead to unnecessary harassment, even if it's in good faith.

[antishipper-culture-is]

A radqueer has committed SUICIDE due to the harassment the community you are apart of has caused on them.

https://www.tumblr.com/wha-t-doth-life/820369102007926784/okay-im-fucking-done-im-gonna-fucking-attempt <- proof here.

uh, okay? I didn't do anything so this really ain't my problem 😭

[remylerattt]

chroma this is still a horrific thing that happened

[antishipper-culture-is]

And chroma can care less, possible predators and abusers will not get any of my sympathy

[changequeer]

Im sorry, but you should care? Even if you had no assistance in it it's still horrible that they were harassed to such lengths. No one should say that someone deserves to commit, even if one is a predator/abuser, wish for them to get help.

[beautifuldefendordetective]

Pedophile sympathizers don't deserve sympathy

[changequeer]

Okay. Let me put it this way. What if someone you knew was struggling mentally, got harassed to the point they committed? No i don't support their actions, but they were struggling mentally, and their friend even said they WERE on the path to get help. Is that not enough? To get help? Pedophilia is a disorder. One that one struggles with. One with DISORDERING symptoms.

I give them sympathy because they struggled, no one should have to end their life, they should go peacefully and quickly.

[antishipper-culture-is]

A radqueer has committed SUICIDE due to the harassment the community you are apart of has caused on them.

https://www.tumblr.com/wha-t-doth-life/820369102007926784/okay-im-fucking-done-im-gonna-fucking-attempt <- proof here.

uh, okay? I didn't do anything so this really ain't my problem 😭

[remylerattt]

chroma this is still a horrific thing that happened

[antishipper-culture-is]

And chroma can care less, possible predators and abusers will not get any of my sympathy

[changequeer]

Im sorry, but you should care? Even if you had no assistance in it it's still horrible that they were harassed to such lengths. No one should say that someone deserves to commit, even if one is a predator/abuser, wish for them to get help.

[changequeer]

Cheesequeer stamps! I love these QwQ HEHE

[anti-willo-sunny]

I support researched self diagnosis btw

Whether you are striving for a diagnosis and do have the means

Whether you’re striving for a diagnosis but don’t have the means

Whether a diagnosis isn’t something you’re striving for

Or whether a diagnosis isn’t a priority right now

I understand how difficult it can be to get diagnosed with certain things, especially if you’re a person of color or a minor.

[borderlineremindersbook]

In the middle of conflict, it’s easy to slip into a mindset of me versus you. The goal can become proving you’re right, winning the argument, or making the conversation entirely about your own hurt while dismissing theirs. But healthy conflict isn’t about determining whose pain matters more. It’s about understanding each other, taking accountability where needed, and working together to repair the relationship. When you fight to win, you often both end up losing because the relationship takes the damage.

[changequeer]

I.... I MADE IT MOVE OH MY GOD

I love it TwT...

[changequeer]

Decided to be silly and make another blank queer term :3

Cheesequeer!

Everything that changequeer stands for but more "cheesy" or "cringe" aka more being yourself and embracing "you". No this isn't meant to embrace the bad. If I see anyone use this in means of supporting harmful ideas you will be told how that's bad and blocked.

Symbols are 🧀🌈!

[radabnormal]

The RadAbnormal person lurking in your closet approves of this /silly

[changequeer]

How long have you been in my closet? /silly

Also YAY thank you :)

[hihi-puffy-yumi]

Originally coined by @radically-normal

🌈🪼 TurriNormal

TurriNormal is a label/stance heavily-inspired on RadNormal, focused on protecting the Age Regression community (AgeRe) from predators and from the introduction of fetishistic or kink-related content into AgeRe spaces. By "Age Regression community," we include Age Dreamers, Pet Regressors, Pet Dreamers, Flips, and Caregivers.

The term was created in opposition to the influx of kink-related content that introduces practices such as AB/DL, Age Play, and similar variants into AgeRe spaces, or that disrespect the boundaries of community members who have made it clear that they are uncomfortable with such content.

We believe it compromises the safety and comfort of vulnerable community members, including minors. It can also cause confusion and questions about the difference between AgeRe and AgePlay and the non-sexual nature of the AgeRe community.

🫧 TurriNormal is infavor of:

🫧 Padded-agere

🫧 AgeRe people who don't fit the agere stereotype (like middle/teen Regressors, AgeRe who like more violent or scary media in little space etc)

🫧 Kinderfur

🫧 Zear, MOGAI, LIOM, contradictory labels such as turigirl and lesboy

🫧 Good-faith or non-harmful labels

🫧 Polymind

🫧 Recovery

🫧 RadNormal, RadAbnormal, CleanQueer, MoralQueer and similar stances

🌊TurriNormal is against:

🌊 Stigmatization of diaper use in Age Regression, or anything else that is wrongly assumed to be exclusively fetishistic.

🌊 Mixing fetishistic content with AgeRe

🌊 Contact of paraphilias such as pedophilia, zoophilia, necrophilia, or any other paraphilia where contact is harmful/non-consensual to oneself or others, whether real or fictional.

🌊 Radqueers, Xenosatanists or any similar variety or adjacent

🌊 Proship, Darkship, Lolicon, Shotacon, Kodocon, Cub, NSFW BabyFur and anything similar under the Profiction umbrella.

🌊 TransIDs (neutral leaning anti on non-harmful/good-faith TransIDs)

🌊 Endogenic, Willogenic and non-traumageninc "systems"

🌊 T.R.A.S.H (Transphobia, Racism, Ableism, Sexism, Homophobia), Queerphobia, Nazi, Censorship

🌊 Harassment, unless is a harmful person (predator, racist, ableist etc) or a minor

🌊 Threats (death threats, for example)

🪸 Misconceptions

🪸 TurriNormal does not oppose the existence of these fetishes or the people who practice them consensually with other adults. We are only in favor of a clear separation between Age Regression spaces and fetish-oriented spaces. Each community serves its own purpose, and some of them should not be mixed.

🪼What does "Turri" means?

🪼"Turri" refers to the Immortal Jellyfish (Turritopsis dohrnii), which is used as a metaphor for age regression. The Immortal Jellyfish is a species that, during certain stages of its life cycle, can revert to its earliest life stage in response to environmental stress or physical trauma.

Similarly, an age regressor is a person who mentally returns to a younger stage of life as a coping mechanism for stress and/or trauma.

🪼Like any jellyfish, this species can also cause injury if touched. In the same way, we are capable of setting boundaries and defending ourselves.

🌈Symbols🪼

🌈 ~ Diversity, queerness, and part of the RadNormal emoji combination.

🪼 ~ Immortal Jellyfish / AgeRe community

Alternative flags

Please give me credit if you use the label or the flag, a person tried to steal it and pretend they're the coiner.

⚠️ This post could go through changes in the future.

[changequeer]

Decided to be silly and make another blank queer term :3

Cheesequeer!

Everything that changequeer stands for but more "cheesy" or "cringe" aka more being yourself and embracing "you". No this isn't meant to embrace the bad. If I see anyone use this in means of supporting harmful ideas you will be told how that's bad and blocked.

Symbols are 🧀🌈!

[changequeer]

As someone that's in recovery myself, I feel like I need to say this:

Recovery isn't a straight path. It's like a cycle. A spiral. It can be a downward spiral sometimes, or an upward spiral. You can regress in recovery and relapse. You can make big leaps in recovery and fall back. It's like climbing a mountain, but falling down just to climb back up. It feels repetitive, like you won't make any progress, but any progress is good. Even if it's you moving at a snails pace. What may take one person a month can take another a year.

Take your time.