#pro changequeer

[changequeer]

Hello! You can call me Ratz, my main blog is @ratzinacoatvr and we made ChangeQueer and Cheesequeer!

ChangeQueer is a stance about how the world isn't black and white, and how people can change. It's anti radqueer and endo, but embraces how people can be redeemed and change ways. See the coining post for expanded info!

Cheesequeer is the same as Changequeer but with embracing cringe and being cheesy! See it's coining post for more!

About me:

🩵 I'm a DID system

🩷 I use I/me and We/Us interchangeably

🤍 I'm alterhuman, rat cambikin collectively

🩷 I have ADHD, suspected Autism. Both medically recognized.

🩵 We are Agender/Spikegender + Achillean

DNI:

Tldr; no dni, just be nice. Follow the "do onto others as you have them do onto you" rule.

Okay gonna be honest here. While changequeer is anti radqueer and anti-endo, I am okay with this blog being a DNI free zone AS LONG as those who this blog/term is against are understanding and nice. If you come into this blog angry and harassing me, I will attack back. If you ask questions and are nice, I will be nice back.

[changequeer]

I wanna say I'm pro accountability.

The first step to healing is acknowledgment and accountability, both are tricky but apologizing and realizing what is going on is important.

[changequeer]

This is. Why? I really hope this person can see how this is harmful instead of putting a funny label to it.

Feel like you should be is the same wanting it, to a point, if you put a silly label to it. No you technically don't want it, but putting a label to it doesn't help? If you don't want it why put a silly label to it?

I get it's to cope but. I'm not going to say Im "cisgroomed" to cope with that shit. I'm not "cis[x]trauma".

I do hope these people can see how making these transIDs can see how they are harmful, to both actual survivors and themselves.

And to the radqueers that follow me, I understand what you do is to cope. But when actual survivors talk to you please listen to them. Also, things like your trauma and triggers should be private. Unless you are okay with them and have worked through them to the point they don't bother you anymore, those should be private. Please acknowledge how these kinds of transIDs can be harmful to your mental health in the long run.

[changequeer]

Decided to be silly and make another blank queer term :3

Cheesequeer!

Everything that changequeer stands for but more "cheesy" or "cringe" aka more being yourself and embracing "you". No this isn't meant to embrace the bad. If I see anyone use this in means of supporting harmful ideas you will be told how that's bad and blocked.

Symbols are 🧀🌈!

[changequeer]

Hey radnormal community and those adjacent to it! Theres a blog @/radicalisted who is doing an "unbiased block and follow list of self proclaimed radicalists"

If you don't like being put on lists either block them or see if you've already been put up and request to be taken down!

I personally don't like lists like this as it can lead to unnecessary harassment, even if it's in good faith.

[changequeer]

As someone that's in recovery myself, I feel like I need to say this:

Recovery isn't a straight path. It's like a cycle. A spiral. It can be a downward spiral sometimes, or an upward spiral. You can regress in recovery and relapse. You can make big leaps in recovery and fall back. It's like climbing a mountain, but falling down just to climb back up. It feels repetitive, like you won't make any progress, but any progress is good. Even if it's you moving at a snails pace. What may take one person a month can take another a year.

Take your time.

[changequeer]

Changequeer decor! All made by me :3

All F2U! Idk why some are cut off either when next to another TwT sad.

[changequeer]

I apologize for not posting, but I still want to be positive!

Anyone is able to recover, anyone can heal. You just have to work on it! It's hard yes, and there will be fall backs. Sometimes it will feel like no progress was made at all, but still keep going!