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[masterofdoublade]

Every time you say "all men should die" you are unfortunately including closeted trans women, and no, people should NOT have to come out just to avoid being killed. You are transphobic both ways if you think all men should die, because you CANNOT tell who is and isn't in the closet, unless they come OUT of the closet.

[masterofdoublade]

it is always white people who can't be fucking normal about anyone ever.

What do you mean I have to just accept that people will hear me say I'm Korean American and ask me stuff about ONLY K-Pop? What do you mean I have to just listen to people turn content that originally showed my culture into brainrot? You all don't get it. The constant white-washing of any non-european/american culture. The actual, GENUINE questions about "north or south" when I tell people I moved to America from Korea. The jokes about how I can find makeup as pale as I am in Korea. The ways people repeatedly butcher our language even if it's not that fucking hard.

I've had people use my Korean name and STILL get it wrong. It's motherfucking johanna. the J is pronounced like a Y. Yohanna. Not at all hard to say, but I still get people fucking it up and that's not even getting me started on my middle name, which is technically my family name in Korean. It's like one of the most COMMON ones too, not hard at all to screw up. People do it anyway! And considering my deadname also gets butchered a lot (It's more of a Japanese name) I think people are just chosing to not give a shit about learning how to pronounce my name.

I absolutely do not fucking mind sharing culture with people, I think it's a great way to bond and bring people and countries together! My problem is that it's just...so common to be racist in America. People have called us barbarians. We get boiled down to "K-pop", and at one point were even referred to as "Squid Game people". Not to mention the racist caricatures asians get protrayed as in early-to-recent USA history, the way America actually fucked shit up for us in ways that I could list for a long while, and how my mom actually has to have me go out shopping for her most of the time because she's native Korean and she's genuinely afraid that someone might hurt her because of that alone.

Please, I'm not saying you have to give up literally anything I mentioned above, but you have GOT to start actually trying to speak words we made the way they're supposed to be pronounced. Mukbangs are also a very good example, not only is the content around it getting weird (it was already kinda weird), but you're not saying it right. Mohk-bangh. 먹방. Go run that through a translator. Please. It's wildly different to how you guys say mukbang.

[masterofdoublade]

Transfems and transmascs + trans women and trans men have much more in common than you would think!!!

Transfems + trans women live on the outside of girlhood and boyhood. They're not a guy and it pushes them out of boyhood, they're born in a way that societally forces them out of girlhood.

Transmascs + trans men live on the outside of girlhood and boyhood. They're not a girl and it pushes them out of girlhood, they're born in a way that societally forces them out of boyhood.

We will always have unique experiences, but there is overlap in the ways our trans identities get treated by TERFS and radfems. They see us as failures, people who must be punished and hurt for failing to fit into the box we were assigned. They do not care for your identity, only for what your body 'should be' in their eyes.

I love all my trans siblings, trans men, trans women, transfems, transmascs. But I especially love all my fellow 'contradictory labels' siblings, and all my intersex siblings who get hurt and ignored in the grand scheme of things.

You are worthy of love and respect, solely because you exist. Don't ever let them turn that love into hatred.

[masterofdoublade]

If you can appreciate trans women and transfems but immediately ditch them when they defend trans men from TERFs or they are also transmasc, you have failed the trans community and you should feel ashamed. We are in this together, we have a community together, why then do you give in to the hatred they know will tear us apart?

[masterofdoublade]

Kris Deltarune should be intersex, not because they are nonbinary, but because I think it would add to them being the odd one out in their town. Being the only human among monsters already alienates Kris, imagine if they were also intersex in a (presumably) perisex community. How much more lonely it must be. That's all I have to add, please consider this

[masterofdoublade]

Seeing literally anyone say trans men hold power over trans women is wild. Like...no, trans men are repeatedly erased, so unless being hyperinvisible gives us power over trans women (who are hypervisible), your cis analysis over queer dynamics sucks and you need to start looking at it with actual queer voices in mind. How many trans men do you know in history versus trans women?

(And no, trans women don't hold power over trans men. Cis people hold power over trans people, and if a single person comes on here and acts like I'm somehow saying trans women are evil and bad, I would like to remind you I am transfemmasc, and have to deal with both sides of trans infighting constantly)

[masterofdoublade]

Really sad that a trans woman assaulted me sexually, and yet so many people would take her side and somehow insist that I ruined her life because I'm trans and don't identify as a woman. If the roles were reversed, people would give a shit about a trans man assaulting a trans woman sexually, or even just any trans person who isn't a woman assaulting a trans woman specifically. Because apparently the world is made of cheese and we should eat our shoes, or some other nonsensical bullshit like that.

[masterofdoublade]

I like that we have a majority opinion in fandom that Jax would choose Daisy as a name should he come out as transfem. I raise you: Jyll. Or any variation of Jill that isn't Jill specifically. Because Jax is a technical 'misspelling' of Jack. Like Jack and Jill??? Does anyone else see this????