The best way to bond and get to like your OC better is to torture the fuck out of them.
Make their existence a living nightmare.
That’s how I fell in love with my inquisitors.
I gave them the worst most tragic backstories ever.
Ciri Lavellan lost both her parents at 10 years old to a mercenary attack on her clan and it tore her up so much she vowed to hunt down their killers and successfully did so at 13.
Vengeance is not sweet. That’s what she learned. It hollows you out until you’re nothing but an empty shell.
Then, years latee, she fell in love with what she later learned was an Elvhen god and he broke her heart into a million pieces.
But that love didn’t destroy her.
Losing her parents taught her that you have to hold onto the things that matter to you.
Solas became everything to her.
So, of course she was going to save him.
Come Hell or high water, she was going to save her heart.
Banal nadas. Ar lath ma, vhenan.
Besides, she made a promise.
She wasn’t going to break that.