A term for for when someone's close to but not quite conformant. This is an umbrella term and one does not have to be conformant-ish in all way to use it, for example a trans person who is hetero-ish could use the term.
Please note these are meant to be self description terms, and should not be used on people who do not self identify with them. And nobody has to use these term, even if they exactly match an example used on the post.
I may make a set of sister flags to this, maybe, maybe not.
Hetero-ish / Straight-ish(terms and flags can be used interchangeably)
A term for for when someone's close to but not quite hetero(sexual,romantic,ect)/straight. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being heteroflexible, have a gender that doesn't have an "opposite", have a fluid orientation and/or gender but most commonly experiencing hetero attraction, being caedstraight or shadowstraight, questioning one's orientation and choosing to consider oneself straight until "proven otherwise", any other experiences of near but not exactly hetero/straight attraction and/or hetero/straight attraction with additional complexities to it.
Cis-ish
A term for for when someone's close to but not quite cis(cisgender and/or cissex). This can be for a variety of reasons, including having gender that one views as similar enough to one's AGAB, being cisgenderless, being both cis and trans, having a "non traditional" relationship with cisness vs transness do to cultural reasons and/or being intersex, having a unique relationship with cisness do to be an alter in a system, questioning one's gender and choosing to consider oneself cis until "proven otherwise", any other experiences of near but not exact cisness and/or cisness with additional complexities to it.
Perisex-ish
A term for for when someone's close to but not quite perisex(or whichever synonym). This is usually because someone is questioning if they are intersex and consider themself perisex until they find evidence to the contrary. It can also refer to having [not do to transitioning] sex traits that considered "non typical" but aren't intersex, or no one has talked about if they're intersex or not. Or other experiences similar to the first two.
Do NOT use this term to imply that perisex altersex and transsex people are somehow no longer fully perisex because they are transitioning. No one can "transition to non-perisex".
Monoamorous-ish, and Allo-ish
A term for for when someone's close to but not quite monoamorous. This can be for a variety of reasons, including being monoflexible, being monoamorous in most types relationships but not all, questioning one's amory and choosing to consider oneself monoamorous until "proven otherwise", any other experiences of near but not exactly monoamorous and/or monoamorous with additional complexities to it.
A term for for when someone's close to but not quite allo(or allospec). This can be for a variety of reasons, including being alloflexible or light greysexual, questioning one's orientation and choosing to consider oneself allo until "proven otherwise", any other experiences of near but not exactly allo attraction and/or allo attraction with additional complexities to it. (specific allo orientations are here)
I describe my gender as Cis-ish woman (butch in a femme way) because i am 5'2 and have massive tits but have also learned from the women in my family before me to screen the men who borrow your power tools.
Because an alarming number of elder millenial men will have an engineering degree and can't plumb in a washing machine.
Cisish:
The identity of being cis with a slight divergence due to being in a system and/or being nonhuman.
Overall flag for each representing cisness, with a dark variation of pink/blue respectively denoting the slight divergence from cis.
For DID/OSDD systems and alters ONLY.
@cisish replied to your post “Modern old men AU where Jack meets Gabriel in a veterans with ptsd...”
HEY OH MY GOD I had an au exactly like this that I developed into two OCs I have now ;-; it's such a sweet idea
Aaa that sounds so sweet. Honestly, I live for any story that’s ‘old men take care of each other’. ; ; Like... how I got here tbh. Please show me some soft, supportive husbands. I need them.
cisish replied to your post “that quote from del toro about the “monster getting to fuck the girl”...”
I haven't actually seen that quote ��I doubt a lot of people have, unless that's paraphrasing? It sounds creepy
nope it’s not paraphrasing afaik he said there’s always an undertone of eroticism in monster movies b/w the women and the monsters (i guess if you consider sexual assault, the real undertone, to be erotic) and this time the monster would get to fuck the girl
