You can't express it positively without going through some harsh experiences that teach you about your emotional side, and how destructive it can be. Moon in aspect to Pluto is not like a Scorpio Moon, the dynamics are different. A Scorpio Moon is very sensitive and reactive, their emotions are quite easily triggered but they don't necessarily seek to repress them. A Moon in aspect to Pluto still has the characterisitcs of the sign it's in, but these traits can be taken to an extreme and become an obsessive focus for the individual, a compulsion. Pluto adds a layer of depth and intensity to the emotions no matter what sign the Moon is in. Basically what happens, especially in youth and when the aspect isn't mastered, is that people who have Moon / Pluto in hard aspect feel things VERY deeply, and they feel overwhelmed by their own emotions, which can scare them and others away. So when they become aware of the fact that they're "different" and much more sensitive than other people, they decide to protect themselves and they do it in various ways: cutting off emotions, turning cold, substance abuse, bullying, and so on (negative manifestations). If channelled positively, the Moon / Pluto individual learns to react differently and with less intensity to people and situations, and transmutes their energy into healing, spirituality, or service. Obviously the area that's most affected by the Moon / Pluto aspect is that which involves feelings and family - there's usually a lot of suffering or trauma of some kind with the mother or the women in the family, or in the immediate family where the child grows up, so they become hypersensitive and insecure, always awaiting for danger of some sort (very often there's an extreme fear of losing a parent, separation anxiety, etc). That insecurity tends to poison every close relationship from then on, especially friendships and romantic relationships (fear of enmeshment / abandonment is a typical Moon / Pluto, Moon / Saturn issue). And that's why Hades Mooners very often sabotage their relationships by acting extremely insecure, needy and controlling, or conversely by being aloof, ignoring, and playing mind games. The reason is a deep-seated fear of emotional pain.
Moon Square Pluto
