Could we PLEASEE get bf headcanons of Ushijima?? I love your writing sm
Ushijima Wakatoshi ✧ bf headcanons
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fluff, crack, nsfw, dating headcanons, him being down bad.
Pre-Dating ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆
He definitely can't flirt. Instead, he watches you with the same intensity he uses to analyze a game. You’ll catch him staring, and when you ask why, he’ll say something devastatingly simple like, "You were focusing. It was impressive."
He starts showing up at your door or your desk right as you’re finishing up. He’ll claim he was "just passing by".
He will plan how to ask you out. "I am going to the park to run on Saturday. I believe the fresh air would benefit your productivity. You should come." It’s not a command, just a suggestion.
Dating - SFW ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆
He isn’t big on public displays of affection, but he is very "grounding." He’ll rest a heavy hand on your shoulder or the small of your back. It feels like being anchored by a mountain.
If you jokingly say, "I’m so hungry I could eat a horse," he will look genuinely concerned and immediately start researching the nearest high-protein buffet to ensure you are properly fed. He will make sure you finish your food too.
Not big on words, but big on actions. Walks you places. Carries your things. Fixes problems before you notice them.
I just know he is a morning person. He’s up at 5:00 AM. If you’re a night owl, he’ll silently leave a glass of water and a protein bar by your bed, moving like a ghost so he doesn’t wake you, but leaving the curtains just cracked enough for the sun to help you wake up later.
Plans out dates to the smallest detail. He won't miss anything.
If you’re a creative (like a writer or artist), he takes your work very seriously. He’ll read every word of your blog or look at every sketch. He won't give empty praise; he’ll say, "This paragraph is very concise. It made me understand the character's motive immediately." To him, that is the highest compliment.
He has massive, calloused hands.
If you’re out in a crowd, he uses his physical stature like a human shield. He’ll subtly position himself so people don't bump into you, or he’ll walk on the street side of the sidewalk without even thinking about it.
If you try to get him into something he’s bad at (like a video game or a specific craft) he gets incredibly intense about it. He’ll sit there with a look of pure, terrifying concentration, trying to master the controls because he wants to be able to "properly participate" in things you enjoy.
If someone is being rude to you, he just stands up to his full height, stares them down with that blank, intimidating expression, and asks a very logical, pointed question that makes them realize they’re being an idiot. "Why are you speaking to them in that tone? It seems unnecessary."
He starts to memorize your non-verbal cues. He’ll notice the exact way you sigh when you’re tired versus when you’re frustrated. Before you even ask, he’s already handing you a coffee or opening a window. He treats your comfort like a skill he needs to master.
If you’re out with a group and you look even slightly uncomfortable or tired, he’ll lean down and whisper, "Do you wish to leave? I can create an excuse." He doesn't care about social obligations; your comfort is his priority.
Shares his meals with you without you asking for it.
He will tell you exactly what he thinks of your outfit or your ideas, but it’s never mean.
If you’re the type to get stressed or "cluttered," Ushijima is the perfect foil. When you’re spiralling about a deadline or a mistake, he’ll just place his hands on your shoulders, wait for you to look at him, and say, "You are capable. Panic is an inefficient use of your energy. Tell me the first task, and we will do it."
Dating - NSFW ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆
When he’s with you, the rest of the world ceases to exist. He doesn't get distracted. His eyes stay on you, tracking every change in your expression and every hitch in your breath. He wants to know exactly what is happening to you in real-time.
He likes positions where he can hold your full weight, keeping you chest-to-chest while he moves.
He likes to "crowd" your space, using his large frame to box you in against a headboard or the mattress. He wants you to feel exactly how much space he takes up in your life. He also likes to overstimulate you, taking advantage of his size and dominance.
He is very hands-on. He likes to feel the curve of your waist or the back of your thighs, his large hands easily wrapping around you. He’s fascinated by the way your skin flushes and the way your muscles tension under his touch.
He isn't much of a "dirty talker", but he is incredibly vocal about his appreciation. He’ll murmur things in a low, rough voice that are almost painfully honest: "You feel so good," or "I've been thinking about this all day." Hearing him lose his usual composure is a massive ego boost.
If he feels like you haven't reached your peak yet, he won't stop. He is incredibly dedicated to making sure you are completely satisfied before he even considers his own finish. He views your pleasure as a personal responsibility.
INCREDIBLE STAMINA.
He is hyper-aware of how much stronger he is than you. There’s something incredibly intense about the way he holds back. If you want him to harder, you know you can just ask and he will make it happen.
He loves it when you’re vocal. He wants to hear every sound you make. If you try to bite your lip to stay quiet, he’ll gently pull it away with his thumb.
He has a habit of anchoring you. He might hold both of your wrists above your head with just one of his hands, or keep a firm grip on your hips to keep you exactly where he wants you.
He likes the lights on, or at least dimmed.
Once you’re both finished, he doesn't just roll over. He’ll pull you onto his chest, your head tucked under his chin. He likes to feel your heartbeat slowing down to match his.
BONUS ⋆✴︎˚｡⋆
He will say something insanely intense and personal like “I’ve never felt this way about anyone before” and then immediately follow it up with “Do you want food?”
You’ll be rambling about something random and he’ll just be staring at you, completely locked in, and when you stop he’ll go “Continue.” like you’re a podcast he subscribed to.
If you're a dirty talker, he will genuinely try to have a conversation with you during sex.
