I read gluten free blogs, mostly Gluten Free Girl (@glutenfreegirl) and Gluten Dude (@glutendude). I read the comments and questions that they get about how to keep yourself safe when eating out with friends, or eating at someone else’s house, or (the scariest thing ever) when someone wants to COOK FOR YOU!!!!!
There are so many different experiences, and every time, I say a blessing for the friends and family that support me.
Case in point. A few weeks ago, our group got together for dinner, and it happened to be Easter. Our friend who was hosting it put up a lovely spread: lots of wine and champagne, cheeses and spreads with crackers and bread, and chocolate Easter eggs. Once everything had been set out, she brought my stuff over. Gluten free crackers (she showed me the package), brie and other cheeses that she had taken off the main spread before serving, and kept aside for me (no cross contamination with knives there!) The chocolate Easter eggs were even still in their original container so I could read the ingredients (as opposed to a classy glass candy dish).
Another friend brought baked goods for everyone, which happened to be gluten free cookies she had made. She told everyone they were gluten free, and sat them next to me. The group knows when it’s my food and they’re allowed to have some, they can’t use their gluten hands that have just touched bread! So they use a napkin to grab a cookie from my plate.
Just to make sure I felt safe, my friend sat down on the couch next to me and went into her spiel. “I cleaned all of the baking trays and utensils before I used them, and here is a picture of everything that I put in them.” Then she showed me pictures of the packages she used, and a list of ingredients from each.
It has taken me years to become comfortable with my friends cooking for me. I used to stand in the kitchen with them and watch them while they cooked. Now there’s a few that I trust, and will pretty much eat whatever they put in front of me, or not eat anything they say, Oh, sorry Tracy, you can’t have that.
I wish for everyone in the Coeliac and NCGI communities to have the support and love that I have from my family and friends.