since am like "fuck the rules" and nobody's gonna tell me what to do, i decide that whatever i wanna wear that i consider lolita (fuck the rules), i will put the hashtag "comfylolita" or "comfyrorita" and "trulycasualrorita", depends on what they're used for, IF, but anyways
it's cause my mentality is anti-white supremacy, anti-bullshit, anti-oppression, so that means fuck the rules, fuck beauty standards, fuck accessories, i will not wear accessories, i will wear whatever the heck i want, truly, no one gives a f*, i truly believe in comfort, in emotions and happiness not "beauty rules" BS
and i truly feel lolita, my love for it, i cherish it, i cherish the frills, i cherish the art, i wanna do lolita art and anyone bringing it or me down can't imagine the smile it gives me, if it did give you such a broad smile, would you like someone commenting on it negatively, telling you to suppress your self expression? no, never
i don't care about the rules, if "whether or not it follows a fucking rulebook", rules are shit and meant to be broken, not followed, i won't change my mentality, who i am, and cosplay, pretend to be someone else i'm not who looks a certain way just to please "pearl-clutching" people
fuck that
i won't stand for shit
fuck lolita rules
there's no rules in fashion, the only rules are actually laws imposed by the governement, that's it, that means you can practically wear anything you ever want. if a government can be that free, then you can see how lolita rules are just a cage and that's toxic, unhealthy, unhappy (i wish for y'all to find true happiness)
it's not me trying to get picked on, that's victim blaming, it's me affirming myself
i revolt
if i wanna wear lolita with "mismatched" sneakers, a hoodie, tights, with no care about whether it matches or not, IT'S OKAY, IT'S VALID AND I HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO
"matching" is very subjective, don't act like it's not, what matches to you doesn't for someone else and what doesn't match to you, matches for someone else, boom! i always see "coord"s that don't match at all imo, do i say something? no! because it matches to you and your happiness and want is all that matters
i don't have to please you, i wear clothes cause i'm forced to, to protect myself and cause i want to, nobody tells me what to or "not to" wear, i do me and that's it, THAT'S FUCKING IT
and that's power