Little Miss Sunshine is the perfect depiction of the Interactional View Theory. Paul Watzlawick describes how relationships within a family system are interconnected and highly resistant to change. Communication among members has a content component and a relationship component that centers on issues of control. The system can be transformed only when members receive outside help to re frame their meta communication. Meta-communication, meaning communication about communication. This film depicts a family who try to tiptoe around each other while simultaneously intentionally step on eachother’s toes. Richard, the father of Olive and Dwayne is obsessed with the idea of winning, while somehow is only capable of losing at his own game. In order to play the family’s “game” there are a lot of rules at stake. First, no one should pressure Dwayne to talk due to his oath of silence inspired by Frerich Nietzche and his passion for joining the air force. Uncle Frank, a suicidal, unemployed, gay man must obey the rules of the dysfunctional family due to his suicide attempt and is forced to be kept under watch of his family. The rules of this family mainly revolve around keeping quiet about financial issues, the heroin addiction that Grandpa poorly hides from his family, but the main game, is get Olive to the beauty pageant. Olive, a sweet overweight girl who does not fit the stigma of classic “pageant” girls, refuses to believe that she is worth any less than the contestants she is competing with. The family, knowing her odds of winning are slim, they continue to support her and keep the worms in the can by avoiding the truly rooted issues that this family endures but is not discussed. Relationships in any family struggle with the family homeostasis, or remaining the status quo. I wanted to analyze an extreme example of a dysfunctional family for this part of my project. If you haven’t already, this movie deserves a watch. What type of games do you play in your family? What happens if you don’t play the game that your family plays? What are the consequences?










