Ya know, i loved Naruto as a kid and never understood why anyone would simp for Kakashi. As an adult I am a total simp for Gojo. And I realized the major difference between those.
Because I am now an adult simping for another adult, and in Naruto I simped for Sasuke as a kid.
In JJK I love Yuuji and Inumaki and Yuta and they are good looking boys but that's just it. They are boys. I am a woman in my 30s.
And I find it disgusting when people ship a character who is a teacher with their student. And I get it, writing is an art form, but so many things are just blatant fetish content.
And I am so glad that the only things I think of when I see Itadori Yuuji are "aww he's so sweet" or "so cute" or "i wanna hug him and give him cookies" and not "he's so hot" or "him and Gojo look so good together"
Unless you are another 15 year old and think he is attractive thats fine.
