Two of my close friends id’ed as bisexual for a long time and were influential in me realizing I was bi as well.
Well, in 2020 one got married and then divorced last year because she realized she wasn’t attracted to him. So she’s a lesbian.
Last summer one of them started dating a girl and told me recently that she has never been attracted to a man before, despite multiple boyfriends. She’s engaged to the girlfriend now.
Anyway, I sometimes wonder if I’ve just forced myself to think I like men, but then I stop and think for a second I recognize I’m definitely bi.
So, I guess the take away here is I’m bi and proud. If you thought you were bi and now realize you’re lesbian, there’s no shame in that. Comp het is a heck of a drug and you are still a lesbian and have always been. You aren’t bringing shame upon the bis. We get it.
Lesbians and fabfems have a special place in my heart. Y’all are strong and tough and have so much character and rich inner lives, even though I only see you on radblr. I hope all of you find happiness in romance and beyond :)