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a queer stranger complimenting my shoes with rainbow beads on them❤️

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finally admitting that you are queer and having friends accept you

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Being bisexual is fun and crazy asf (in a cool way), especially when it comes to desire with men. But what’s crazier is how straight people get so baffled at you being attracted to men that aren’t necessarily in the traditional heterosexual masculine category. And in my experience and repeated personal observation, I’m mainly frustrated about conservative straight girls doing this (if the shoe fits, don’t fucking bean-soup this 🤦‍♀️)

Like, apparently, if my type isn’t 6’8 macho athelte chad…it’s amusing and comical in a way? They act like guys who aren’t traditionally masculine are residual anomalies and weird exceptions…even calling them “gay” as an insult, additionally being disgusted at YOU for being attracted to them.

And you know what’s ironic? A good chunk of them will look at you sideways for not chasing “tall dark and handsome”…while dating and defending openly homophobic, racist, and abelist men who constantly embarrass them, but it’s fine, because he’s tall, makes more then her, and reserves his generic gentlemanly manners exclusively for her, while ignoring and dismissing other women, which is somehow an indication of loyalty for them (because they’re insecure and find it validating for their man to only reserve his human decency for them run a strict program 💕, and don’t fucking play with me because I have several years of witnessing this shit💕💕🙌🙌, but ofc, if the shoe fits.).

Like, fine, I don’t gaf as much about the traditional standards, which translate low standards to you, but actually, the focus is on being kind (to everyone, not just “his boys” and I), ambitious, intelligent, creativity,. Etc. so it’s annoying to put up with giggles about having a non-traditional taste, that being sad, it is better than having to defend a man that embarrasses me. lol.

I’m queer and unconventional. My perception and attraction works differently to conventional standards, (which may not be the case for all bisexual women but is for me) and that means, I will inevitably like others who aren’t rigid in a heterosexual box too. Including men. Your heterosexual rigid box isn’t universal, nor applicable in such a manner.

This is the most if-the-shoe-fits part of this whole post and I’m kinda going on a tangent here so skip if you want idc, it’s kinda side-tracked from the original post. I feel particular frustration for straight women specially, not because I’m a misogynist or blah blah blah, but I’ve always noticed that the whole “girls and the gays” is such an evident thing in the online scene and even irl, but for some reason, that’s only with stereotypical, flamboyant gay men, even then it’s so weird and transactional, i.e when they benefit from it…I mean to say, I’ve noticed straight men are often expected to be overt with their discrimination, making it easier to call out, whereas straight women somehow seem to pretend they’re so for queerness and all that fluff. But in reality, I feel as though they’re just as homophobic as straight men, just not as obvious. It’s rather…with a ribbon on top, seeing from their shaming non-traditional men by calling them “feminine” “gay” “sassy”? So being feminine (which is what YOU are) and gay (which is something you publicly support, with your “gay best friend”) is an insult and something to be ashamed of? Hmmm…weird. It’s hidden and almost defensible to them, where they think it’s justified as a “preference” or frustration with their potential romantic partners, so technically you can’t say anything, as you’d be attacking their “personal taste” but it’s so annoying because it’s so obviously hypocritical.

TLDR: stop yucking others’ yums and recognise that your standards are not universal, not need putting on a pedestal + maybe check that you giggling about the guy wearing sparkly jeans isn’t more embarrassing than the “real man” you’re seeing that makes “dark humour” about other minorities and is rude to others, which is additionally embarrassing for you to associate with.