#confidence is important

[theseasonofnow]

Believe It

Confidence- a feeling of self-assurance arising from one’s appreciation of one’s abilities or qualities. To be successful in life, a person needs to possess or develop strong confidence in themselves, their world, and other people. How confident you are in your abilities will dictate much of the success or failure you experience in life. The strange thing is that its confidence stems solely from…

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[theseasonofnow]

These Masks

Masks of Life Masks are used to hide a real identity. What does yours hide? It doesn’t matter who you are, where you live, or how much you have. You have spent a significant part of your life creating and wearing masks to hide your true identity. Authentic masks have become convenient in protecting our true identity in social situations. They bring us power, acceptance, or even can allow us to…

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[thekingofsadness]

Apollo and Athena

SEND ME A GREEK GOD

Apollo: favourite piece of music

God I don’t know, that’s the thing. I don’t have a preference in writing genres and thus in a similar way, I don’t have a favorite song. The only trend in my musical taste is that it’s most often from video games and that I seem to prefer ‘hybrid’ genres the most. But my preference for one song or another changes fast.

Athena: share a piece of wisdom (you knew why you chose this one didn’t you no lie)

They say that you need intelligence to get through in life but it’s not just that. You need confidence, you NEED the ability to find comfort in yourself, who you are AND what you are. It’s not just some cheesy line that explains why all the bad boys are popular with women but it affects MANY things. Work, social life, romantic life, HECK YOUR ENTIRE LIFE! You have to believe in yourself. Because that’s the first, and often hardest, step to improving and getting a better life.

So many people I meet, whether they are adults or they are children, they have so many crippling self-doubts (most of this stems from their family I must add) and it just stops them from functioning. You have to gain confidence in yourself, you have to become the master of your life. The world will continue spinning, yes, but this is your life, and your story. Try and make the best of it.

This sounds like it’s on depression and it is in some ways, but even for those of you are not depressed but are shy, BELIEVE. IN. YOU! Believe that you can make that deadline AND get a good mark. Believe that the good looking girl/guy you see will date you or chat to you. Believe that you can get past whatever obstacle stands in your path, whether by charging ahead or finding a different route to take to the same goal.

Because trust me. It’s a small thing. But it makes a big difference.

[motherfuckingmasterofblueb-blog1]

*stares at mod* Hope your happy I admitted to being "A Cutie" earlier hope your happy. *adorable pout*

It made me very happy! You see, I didn’t want to have to sic Ryuu on you but you were being stubborn! Since you admitted it, no blood had to be shed and we all know it’s the truth now!

[justasexcond]

okay but it is so much more attractive when a boy makes actual plans rather than "idk u choose"

[and-y]

I’m tired af all the time and whenever I meet up with some of my old friends from high school and new people they always tell me I look blazed or high. Honestly it really offends me because looking blazed all the time does not look fucking good. It offends me. All. The. Fucking. Time. I know some of you are going to read this and call me an over-sensitive bitchass but really I’ve been getting called “pothead” or “crackhead” for 5 years of my fucking life. I’ve tried getting used to it and laughing it off but enough is enough. Next time someone calls me that i’m going to have to politely ask them to stop. I’m not “pothead” nor am I “crackhead” my name is Andy and I am a normal ass functioning college student. I rarely smoke weed and I have never tried hard drugs and I actually despise drugs now. 

[torontomademe]

Me > you.

[flowers-silence]

I think building confidence is really important. So is learning to not compare yourself to other people, well in negative ways at least - like saying "oh, so and so is so great and I'm terrible I should be more like them." You gotta be yourself, and I know that sounds super cliche but it is true. It is also important to not judge others so harshly for outside things of their appearance because other people are trying to be comfortable with who they are just like you may be.  

Anyways, what I am getting at is confidence is important. It helps so much in life. Honestly, I used to try to like things other people liked and be in same fashion as other people to be the norm and be accepted but that didn't make me happy at all...so i stopped doing that. Another honestly is I used to be very judgmental and that probably ruined a lot of good relationships with people for me. Confidence and acceptance have helped me so much to love myself. Like, it honestly it important to like who you see in mirror and think you are cute and be happy. It's not vain to be comfortable with yourself and appearance. I'm so much happier now I can look in the mirror and say "yes, I look cute and I am happy and I am me and I need to just be me"  and surround myself with my interests and not pay heed to those who put me down because of it. Because in the end it's me and what I like and how i feel about myself, yea?? Yea. 

Moral is, be happy and be confident!!! It won't happen right away and it takes work but it is so so worth it.