#confidence spells

[theempressofthenile]

Let Me Love You (Beauty Spell/Chant For Yourself)

If you've been feeling like you cant love thyself & embrace your looks this is for you.

1x green candle (7 day)

2 red (small) candles

the green is to help you connect to yourself, the heart and your desires around beauty.

the red candles help you stay firm in your foundation for yourself. to build your confidence and commitment to yourself.

When beginning, light your candle and say 3 words:

I. Love. You.

It doesn't matter how you say it, just begin from here.

As you burn the candles, practice self love chants :

I am love, divine perfection. A gift from the Gods (you can say the universe) to where my soul is as pretty as the ocean, beautiful as the heavens, and as bright as the sun. My reflection is of that of the moon. I am as pretty as I could be if i just believe.

x3

do this every day, and focus on a ritual routine during each day. Commitment to yourself is the point of the altar work.

Work for Fridays - Venus Love & Play

1 (7 day) pink candle (for fridays) - Yellow candle (confidence booster)

for the altar, place a mirror a treasure box with your favorite trinkets like jewelry, favorite lip gloss etc. You can even add dollar bills if you want ;) Roses are a special type of flower to use for this type of altar work, but whatever you have near in your garden or around you in general is good as well.

A chant to love yourself :

I desire my company

My powers are in me

I am a full ocean of water

Created to feel the waves inside my body

Today, I am myself

Turning all insecurities into gold

I am the sun & the moon , the richness of the stars

I am brave, confident and bold

I am blooming like the trees and the flowers,

I am a being who grows into her natural essence.

My confidence is boosted with my light.

My personality is everything, its okay for me to be different.

I am the sun, and the moon, and the stars.

I am loved from up and above.

The universe is my reflection, I am beautiful just because.

Now, like the chant above, you will create something for yourself here. Its so that you can build a better bond with your intuition. Maybe you won't need to say anything, you might need to dance it out.

Play with yourself, touch your hair with each stroke using your brush. Do your makeup, sing and dance to your favorite song.

Staring at your reflection in the mirror will show you what you need to see. Whats missing.

Focusing on your intent on what you need most to show up in your beauty, confidence, self esteem will light up the way to how you express yourself moving forward. Which is why I said dance or singing as examples.

Because maybe you can write your chant/words of affirmation, or you can simply light the candles and go about your routine for yourself like you usually do, and sit with yourself as you're doing them to boost your confidence.

Its all about your perception on this last one.

The yellow candle is for your gut/intuiton. Focusing on your sense of self. Confidence booster.

The pink is for love, beauty and sensuality. Embracing the power of your beauty and essence and showing up for yourself.

I hope all is well on this journey of yours. Ase.a

[breelandwalker]

is there such a thing as a spell (or portable charm/witchball or similar) to make you "believe your own hype"? i'm working through some longtime anxiety and scrupulosity issues with a therapist right now, and one of the things we've been discussing is the idea that your thoughts aren't facts and that my own perceived *shortcomings* or *failures* aren't going to cause the universe to punish me. these are things that i can comprehend intellectually, but in the moment of the stress or ocd trigger, they all seem like nonsense. so i began thinking of a way to make myself some kind of charm or similar to carry with me that would remind me (and make it easier to accept/internalize) these positive messages. like a positivity/hope/trust-the-process type charm? is that a thing...or are there certain components i could put together to make it a thing?

That is most definitely a thing!

You know, we talk about glamour magic so often in terms of our interactions with others, but we're only beginning to scratch the surface of using those same methods to create similar spells for ourselves. To that end, let me introduce you to the wonderful world of confidence glamours.

Confidence glamours can be attached to just about anything you wear, carry, or apply to your person, and their effects can be tailored to whatever you most need. The usual idea is to allow or encourage others to perceive you in the way you wish to be perceived, but they can just as easily be used to reassure or bolster yourself.

This can be done by creating a simple affirmation and attaching it to a piece of jewelry or clothing that reinforces the feeling you wish to manifest, or by attaching the spell to makeup or toiletries or a personal talisman.

For example, you might create an affirmation charm that carries the message, "My Confidence Carries Me Through The Day" and attach that to your favorite pair of shoes. Whenever you wear the shoes, the spell will give you just a little boost of confidence to carry you through situations that might otherwise derail your momentum or cause you to get stuck in an anxiety spiral.

You might attach an affirmation of, "I Am Unflappable" to your favorite moisturizer or cosmetic and apply the spell when you perform morning ablutions or put on makeup or moisturizer. Or you could select a favorite pocket talisman, like a keychain or a stone with a pleasing color and texture, and attach an affirmation of, "I Trust In Myself" that you can carry around in your pocket and squeeze or look at whenever you need that reassurance.

Speaking as someone who struggles with anxiety, especially in fast-paced social situations, I keep a few charmed items on hand for just about this exact purpose. It's not easy for an easily-overwhelmed gremlin who would much prefer to be a professional ornamental hermit to go out and perform six straight hours of direct marketing once a month in order to keep that side hustle money coming in, but I have to do it. So I have a hat. It is a lovely fancy hat decked out with fairy lights and I wear it to all my public events. There is a charm on the hat that increases my confidence and keeps me from getting overwhelmed, even when the market is bustling and I barely have time to breathe between customers. (I also have glamours attached to my favorite eyeshadow colors for similar purpose and I fully recommend "I Am Witty And Dazzling" as an affirmation phrase.)

These are just some suggestions. Of course you'll come up with whatever phrases or affirmations have the most meaning and the best effect for your particular situation, and you can attach them to whatever you wish. Attaching the spell can be as simple as holding the item in your hand and speaking the affirmation while visualizing the spell winding around and into the object. You can also attach the spell by drawing or tracing a sigil with the affirmative meaning onto the object, though this can be a bit difficult if your chosen object is small.

In any case, I hope this helps! And I'll leave you with a bit of accidental wisdom from my podcast senpai Trae Dorn - even in retrograde, Mercury is still moving forward.

[mysticgazelle]

[thewitchesspellbook]

A Spell for personal Healing, Confidence or Self- Esteem.

This is a simple spell that can give an immediate pick-me-up when you vitality is lagging, or you’re nervous about a job interview or a first date- or whatever (This one’s best done skyclade as well.)

You will need.

1 piece of paper

1 black Pen

1 glass of mineral water

1 teaspoon sandalwood chips or power

1 cauldron  (or something you can burn the paper in- even a saucepan )

Matches and 3 charcoal discs. 

Cast a circle.  either with a full blown ritual, or by standing and inhaling deeply three times, holding your right arm at 90 degree angle to to your body and clicking your thumb and forefinger  three times, Visualize a sphere of blush-white light around you. 

Light the candle charcoal  discs and place them close together in the cauldron. When they are hot and glowing sprinkle half the sandalwood over them and write down your fears on the piece of paper, for example “I’m scared I’ll make an idiot out of myself in front of Mark/ Mary,” I feel like I’m coming down with the flue,” I’m scared I’ll forget the answers to the test’, etc  when its written down, read it three times. then scrunch the paper into a small ball saying aloud “Begone” and toss the paper on top of the charcoal disc. As the paper flares into flame know that your fear is burnt away. When the paper is just ash, sprinkle the rest of the sandalwood onto the disc, take three deep breathes and loosely cup the palms of your hands together almost together  imagine yourself to be brimming with confidence and health, so ridiculously so, concentrate this energy into a ball of rose colored light between your palms . Feel it glow hot and over the glass of water and drop the revitalizing energy  ball into it and then gulp all the water down. Don’t waster a drop! 

Now stand with your arms help out slightly to your sides with your palms upward and close your eyes. Fell vitality and confidence tingle through you say

“I am unique (health/ intelligent etc) and blessed” 

And then click the fingers of your right hand 3 times to open Circle; or open normally if you did the full ritual. 

Many Blessings

[celestialprinceling-blog]

Quick Witch Tip

Use your favorite/signature perfume to easily charge items and spaces with your energy -- aka letters, fabrics, your own body. Helpful for dysphoria and confidence.

[themanicnami]

Lilithmon’s Wicked Beauty Glamour Spell

“It confounds its opponents with its bewitchingly lovely appearance and dark beauty.”

A glamour spell to appear beautiful, mysterious, dark and captivating.

You Will Need:

💜 Eyeliner of Choice 💜 Purple Candles 💜 Black Candles 💜 Purple or Dark Eye Shadow 💜 Rose Quartz 💜 Garnet 💜 Mirror 💜 Piece of Chocolate (preferably dark chocolate)

Steps:

💜 Get your items together in front of the mirror you will be working with. Light you candles. You may use whatever number you desire just try to have at least one of each of the two colors. Be sure to keep them out of the way of where you will be working and possibly leaning forward to prevent burns and other undesirable accidents.

💜 Place your rose quartz and garnet near your candles to further fill the room with the aura of beauty, seduction and secret darkness

💜 Do your eye make using your eyeliner and eye shadow as you desire. Personally, I would recommend bold eye liner for this glamour and smokey eyes but do what feels right for you and works with your eye/face shape. As you do your make up visualize mysterious, beautiful captivating eyes wearing the make up you are applying. How their gaze draws others in and captures their attention. How they a beautiful but have an edge of mystery and almost danger to them, keeping others from getting too close. Keep this image in your mind as you finish up your eye make up.

💜 Once satisfied with your eye make up, while staring at yourself in the mirror pick up your piece of dark chocolate

💜 “Like eyes of a serpent in the night, I am lovely and charming but with a bit of a bite. Those who see me are struck by my beauty, but they dare not touch for they feel my radiated might. Like chocolate dark and bitter, I am beautiful, lovely and wicked.”

💜 Eat the piece of dark chocolate after saying this as a way to close the spell and give yourself an extra boost of seduction and energy for the spell. Continue on with your routine and know that you are wickedly beautiful

[twicecoven-blog]

You make me begin🌟

a jar spell to help you express your emotions more clearly | inspired by bts’ begin

items you will need:

🌙 a jar

🌙 salt

🌙 basil

🌙 thyme

🌙 rose petals

🌙 gold glitter (optional.. but along with adding happiness, it makes it look pretty!!)

🌙 pink/red/yellow candle (you need the wax)

🌙 rose quartz (to have in your casting space)

🌙 carenlian (to have in your casting space)

✨ light your candle

✨ make sure the jar you are going to use is extra clean!

✨ put all of your items into the jar one by one

✨ while doing so, focus on your intent

✨ once the jar is filled, seal it off with the wax

✨ carry the jar with you or place it in a safe place with positive energy 

[the-broken-stones]

Call Your Senator Self-confidence Bath

For when you want your voice heard, but that phone anxiety is getting in the way. 

Adapted from a job interview confidence bath spell from Judika Illes 5000 Spells.

Place sandalwood pieces, cinnamon stick, cedar chips, and fresh ginger in a bowl. *

Cover with boiling water and let the botanicals steep for awhile- at least one hour. 

Draw a bath for yourself. 

Stand in the tub and toss the now lukewarm infusion over your body. 

Soak and steep yourself in the bath. 

Remember to allow yourself to air-dry and leave the botanicals in the infusion, for utmost power, if at all possible. 

Notes from a thrifty witch: If you don’t have a bathtub, take a shower and then either pour the infusion over you or sponge it onto yourself before drying off. 

Sandalwood can be omitted if unobtainable. Cedar chips can be found in the housewares section of some stores (they’re used as air-fresheners). 

*If you have an allergy to any of these, please omit them. Vanilla can be used as a substitute.