My belief system is a one-size fits all. It takes too much energy to believe others can get what they want and I can’t….or to believe that only I can create my reality and others can’t or struggle to.
Most of my resistance, my doubts, my fears and my indecision have come from me trying to customize and tailor my belief system so that it satisfies specific people and specific circumstances in my life (i.e. I can’t want XYZ because my family won’t approve).
In other words, when my belief system isn’t stabilized and all inclusive, I find myself experiencing resistance, unable to attract what I want.
If I want something, I have the freedom to want it without shame and guilt. That also means others in my reality have the freedom to want what they want without shame and guilt, even if it is contradictory to what I want.
Why would I need to be offended? Why would I need to convince them that what I want is best? Who cares?!
I don’t need their approval, just as they don’t need mines.
I already know I’m going to get what I want because I know my power, just like I trust they know theirs.
If everything is always working in my favor, then that means everything is always working out in other peoples favor. That also means I don’t have to pity others and play into their victim/fear-based stories. That’s not the level of “supportive” I want to be.
If others are able to create a life of ease and abundance, then that means so can I. That also means I don’t have to feel jealousy or feel “unlucky”.
If I can meet my own needs and ask for what I want, then that means others can do the same. That also means I don’t need to worry about anticipating their needs or holding myself back for fear of being “inconsiderate”.
There is no separation. That’s an illusion.
The simplest way I can convey this is with the following -
Belief: Sharing is caring
…If that’s what you WANT to do lol.
“But what if I don’t share, isn’t that bad?”
No, you don’t have to share. Quite frankly, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do.
