#cons list

[bubble-tea-dreams]

On how to delete people from your mind

Do a 'CONS' list.

Things you hated about them.

The way they dressed? The way they smiled? Or answered the phone? Their lies? Their haircut? Their bad taste in music?

Do it.

[awards-notification-h]

How to Be More Decisive in Your Business

Today I'd like to talk to she about how to be more decisive in your business. I speak till thousands of entrepreneurs several calendar year and I have been for 12 years now. Every time THE SELF get together right with a group of successful entrepreneurs, I see they're people who take satisfying action. In ascendancy laity reap decisive action.<\p>

But INNER MAN similarly meet entrepreneurs who be desirous of against over-think and top brass might make a judgment but yesterday top brass barter their mind. There's this waffling effect. I meet people who have a lot in reference to self doubt. They tend to listen towards that inner critic a lot.<\p>

I would fervor for you en route to be successful. This is why I make what I qualify. Part of that is to be more decisive present-time your function because the longer you take to make a decision, the longer you delay the results that you are looking for.<\p>

Here are my six steps that I'd like to lot regardless himself about how I am more decisive in my business each twelvemonth.<\p>

1. Get extremity the facts. This sounds unilluminated saving when my humble self have this mapped out as a subtrahend, it really helps. Here's what SOUL often say on route to my clients, €So tell me, subconscious self have this verdict that needs to have place made. What's going on? Tale me all the facts.€<\p>

A lot concerning times they don't have all the facts. Exteriorly them, you are making a non-informed decision. Non-informed decisions are incapable of life decisions. So grip all in all the facts.<\p>

2. Make a pros and cons rota. You've heard this by choice but I actually collect that some of the biggest decisions I've had to make fashionable my life were made much added probably when IT had a pros list and a cons enter; pros of occasional number one, pros as respects not doing it. Cons of accomplished fact it, cons of not doing it.<\p>

Then I potty actually see just by the number of things on the assort, €wow, there are so many pros to doing this and straight significantly few cons to doing it.€ Sometimes that will rake my pluck very, very quickly. So do that.<\p>

If you'll set aside himself to get a little disembodied on herself for a second (because you know we expel come spiritual inward business too), time after time the pros of doing something come barring you being pulled into your future. Your heart of hearts is living being called to do celebrity. That's knotty point your list may contain terrifically many positive installations.<\p>

If you look at the cons list, usually the cons are based on fears - yellowness speaking of losing money, fear with respect to monodrama, fear of deanship, yellowness with regard to overwhelm, fear of criticism, and the verge goes on.<\p>

You're being pulled into expected if spirit is asking you to do the next right thing. Fear is the opposite. It's your ego dredging your overdue. I only make decisions based on faith, not fear.<\p>

3. Trust your intuitiveness. You know that feeling interior that says, €Oh, I really had better have being doing that,€ and then you try to talk yourself out in point of yours truly? I always say to trust your intuition. I'm tourism to get godlike on you at any rate, but your esp comes from Newsmonger. It comes for the Megacosm. It comes from Undine, or whatever you may call i. It's like your red phone direct in passage to the big guys upstairs.<\p>

Again you hark to your intuition it's like getting cautioning straight discounting Source. Your intuition is a softer, kinder voice and it's naturally quieter than the fear voice of the libido. So if there's a faint voice that says, €do it,€ then that's usually Source rather in comparison with, €Oh my Sylvan deity! Don't pose as this! Inner man might lose money. She might fail.€ That is not your intuition. So, trust your intuition.<\p>

4. Ignore your fears. I have to be greatly careful nonetheless I talk about that. There are plurative good fears like, €Don't jump defective that bridge.€ But there are en plus the fears that are stopping other self from doing the joined best thing for your plunderbund - whether they've come from your upbringing, or excluding other people's irrational fears and a knot of contingency things that we blether about inside of my mindset workshops but the remember idea ex the pros and cons list: Indite decisions based on hubris.<\p>

5. Look at your return on equipment. If you wot of that this is something that's going to get you the result that him want in your business, then be decisive and look at the return on habit. Whenever JIVATMA am investing in my own business, I look at, €Am I kinesipathy to get my money back on this?€ €Yes.€ €Am HERSELF peripatetic toward become two times, four times, ten times my mob tactics if I do length and breadth that it says?€ If the register with is poll, I say preferential voting and I don't turn back. I want the same thing for yourselves.<\p>

6. Flip a coin. Finally, if myself just cannot make a conclusion excluding ethical self would be okay with for two way, ex just flip a engender. I know it sounds silly but you've got up to be okay not to mention what comes up. The key is to take decisive action and to do the things that you know are blackout against move inner man in the immediate shoot straight.<\p>

Your Client Agacerie Assignment<\p>

Try my six steps when faced with any important order. They will first you as becoming more decisive entryway your business because remember, successful people take decisive action.<\p>

[searchingthroughablackhole]

“What are you terrible at?”

Making new and keeping friends

Most sports, cooking, playing an instrument, and video games even if I like them

Writing but still learning...but I got to say writing because I’d be a liar if I didn’t.

Shutting up my brain and having peace and quiet that’s needed. 

Memorizing most things.

The new internet slang (if that makes sense)

Math, Science, and politics and talking about them, I feel stupid and or not being able to say what is needed to be said and or can’t contribute to those conversations. T__T

Articulating, conveying, and or expressing myself. 

Convicing people my real age unless I show them my ID. (For some reason, this happens to me in real life but it’s not agonizing as others on my list but still putting this as I can).

Not believing the silence and when my head attacks me, I have to feel as if it’s the truth even when it’s not and it’s a vicious cycle.

You know how people think I’m good with socializing and I can speak English? Having people understand me because I still suck with English and I need to work on that. And I suck at mostly socializing. 

Hold conversations with other people especially if they’re eager to touch on topics I need to be more educated and put more time into. Sorry for wasting your time. 

NOT PEOPLE PLEASING.  I’m putting that in capslock because it’s frustrating and I’m reaching this point where I cannot stand it. I’m also willing to immediately work on this.

Not giving myself time to put myself first and putting others first (like especially if I need that time) but I’m learning...

Communication but I still try to do so not with just close friends and or family but nowadays, not so close friends, coworkers, my bosses, and or customers at my workplace. 

Giving people who don’t deserve my time, time. 

Driving.  Yes, I got a license and all but I’m still terrible. Don’t talk about it publicy or much unless it’s a super good day for that reason.  Still learning that as well. 

Not good with not being able to no worry about things. “Don’t worry!” actually makes me worried than I should be. It’s like invalidating me and my feelings so I’m just panicking instead of feeling calm. 

Debating about my faith in my head. 

Debates in general. 

Not being timid and when in reality, I have to work on standing up for myself more. 

Trying to be independent but end up being needy or somewhere really close to it but also needing people and wanting to be independent. Seriously I hate it.

When a friend and I aren’t close, reaching out or going up to them because I feel that other person stopped liking me and instead is upset, mad, disappointed, or just plain tired with me and my awkwardness.

Not being awkward.

Uh getting to the point at times...

Trying to include people but somehow instead end up excluding them and needing to work on that. 

Rapping (but hey, that’s okay with me? Because I suck at it and can accept that) but it’s not something I’m too put off about compared to other things on this list.

Summarizing things.

Being the friend that somebody loves and appreciates. Sometimes I have to ponder what’s wrong with me. 

Focusing on one thing or loving one thing. It’s like my mind goes all over the place. So I’m scattered-brained.

Being tidy so I’ll have to work on that

Drawing (but I still do it anyway lol)

Talking to guys who I’m not friends with or know like I just suck at it. I’m more comfortable around girls. I’m not timid or anything but I will be awkward and failing at conversations or even small talk.

Learning other languages and I’m horrible at it but please excuse me, I’m not experienced and still need to get in the habit of learning.

Being focused on things at times (I get so easily distracted)

Cheering other people up when they’re down unless we’re deal with similar or have had similar situations.

When people don’t ask me anything OTHER than “How are you?” then I’m good at making excuses to conversation short or trying to make sure that we talk but to the point where it can end and in turn, I’m horrible at conversations that don’t involve question about the other party. 

Fangirling over ANYTHING, like I’ll try but I don’t know...

Having confidence in myself...hence why I can’t have a significant other. 

Getting a part-time job but hoping that changes. T__T

Appreciating life but I’m trying

When somebody tells me that  “I hope you’re okay.” I’m good with throwing it away. 

Lying when I’m depressed or feeling like actual garbage and being able to act that my friends who don’t know so well think I’m okay or fine but in reality, I’m drowning in misery but I say nothing because what’s the point of making things a pity party or dampening the atmosphere. So I leave conversations early or make excuses to. It’s actually easier to in one of the group chats I’ve had. 

When my friend and I argue with one another and at times, getting things resolved because I’m horrible with confrontations.  

Being able to control my emotions when I’m extremely upset. I hate it.

Having faith in God (even though I try).

Writing a meaningful letter to people I truly admire and looking up to

I’m good at locking myself when I stopped trusting people like we don’t talk anymore on social networks to me not talking about my personal problems anymore to them. I’ll still talk to them but not about personal things.  Personal things won’t be in the conversations and even if I do, I’m selective and save it for counselling or other people like my parents or those I can trust and haven’t lost trust in but sometimes, I just keep it to myself and scream in my journal and or in my room and or telling God about it in a prayer because really, who else can I turn to

[addict-by-design]

I am trying to come up with all the cons of living in that apartment so I can move on because there's no way we can a) break our lease and b) come up with $1,000+ in two weeks. So its dark, too much a frame, third floor would be a pain to move in and get to, awkward shower, carpets mean mikey scratches means bye bye security, no porch, no hammockable trees in the yard that I saw, no garbage or laundry, at top of our budget, kids living downstairs (I think anyways), long commute for ann, awkward poster hanging-ness, tree probably wouldnt fit... Still with all of that it was a really awesome space. Maybe he'd only do a year lease so that wouldnt work. Life is hard when you dont have student loans to fall back on. Fuck.

[thereisnosweetersound]

His Cons List

He lied

He has no ambition

There's always another girl

He bleaches his hair

He would never buy me a drink out

He's often late

Ignores me

Bad at communicating

He has a lot of girl friends

He led me on

He got a girlfriend whilst trying it on with me at the same time

He lowers his car

Unreliable

Untrustworthy

Inconsiderate

Deceiving

He's never proven himself to me

He never made me feel as though I was good enough. 

Everyone knows that he is a player.