Hey, I want to look into whether conversion is the right way to go for me, and I want to find a rabbi with whom I will feel comfortable. I am transgender, nonbinary, and queer, as well as anarchist/deeply opposed to nonconsensual hierarchy and authority. These things are part of what drives me toward Judaism, but from what I have read, some communities might be more fitting for me than others. I am terrified of finding a rabbi who ends up being disrespectful of me, but should I just go out there and hope for the best? Is there a way for me to look for specific "schools of faith" (for lack of a better word) that are maybe fitting for what I value? I am terribly sorry if this question is in any way inappropriate, I tried my best to adhere to your standards but might have missed something. Thank you so much for what you do!
Mod here. Thank you so much! This was a lovely ask to read! Respondents, please...
...think twice before speaking for communities that aren’t your own on this ask.
...name the community or communities you are discussing (e.g. denomination, minhag, philosophy, movement).
...approach anon with respect, whether or not you think your community would be a good fit for anon.
...feel welcome to share parallel experiences and/or invite anon into relevant support spaces!
