9 ways to get over/cope up with unrequited love
1. Read Books ; get away in another world to stop you from thinking about him/her ... or sometimes understand your situation ...
2. Don't talk about him/her. Like DON'T. It's tempting because they're the only thing on your mind. I mean you can talk to your close friends about it. But don't make it your only subject of conversation, where someone who you're barely friends with knows about it. Because it's only going to make things worse. Focus on different stuff.
3. Drink Tea. not coffee I mean you can but no, drink tea.
4. Write some poetry about how you feel, how it sucks and whatever, just get it into a poetic form on a paper. Even if it's not really your talent. Who cares , it's not like someone's going to see it. If poetry doesn't work for you then just write about it, write about, write about it until it's all out. [ and in my case tear the paper or whatever to express your anger and hurt... trust me it feels good.]
5. If writing isn't your thang then express yourself in some other ways. Make art. Draw something, paint something do something. It relaxes you and free's your mind.
6. Take care of yourself like don't just lie in bed, sleep. Or not eat or excessively eat. Or stay at home. Because it's really easy to just neglect yourself ... but that's the worse thing you can do. Go out... not out of your room. Out of your house ; hang out with friends... go shopping ... Also try exercise it helps take out all of the toxic shit out of your body.
7. Play some music. Like an instrument. Or if not listen to music. Not sad music to make you feel bad. But like good music.
8. Don't wait for them to come around. Because if they didn't until now, there's a strong chance they won't ever. Don't sit in front of your computer or next to your phone waiting for them to chat, message of text you.
9. Accept it. Accept that they don't feel the same way and that some day it will get better and it will get better because someone else is going to come around. Or you'll finally have enough sense to let go because it's just simply not worth it.
- Thank you for seeing this, I hope it helped and just remember someone out there is going to be crazy about someday ;D -
- And incase anyone is wondering ... I didn't come up with all of this on my own , some of it yes ... and if you're curious ... just ask me -
