#crimesofvisualshock

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Probably the best and worst thing is just straight up be honest. If he truly values your friendship then he’d listen but if he’d put someone else above his friends to which it causes stress on you then say something. Your mental health is of the utmost importance and if a friendship ends then it’s their loss in the end.

It saddens me because we’ve been talking aabout this for MONTHS and i did my best to give my best advice but yet...

I never was a good actress, and if i dont like you i just cant fake it, id rather not go through the stress of having to TRY and i dont want him to stress either, trying to mediate, it is true what they say, better not tell ur friends how ur partner treats you cause u can forgive but ur friends could never (not that it would have helped, i saw with my own two eyes how she treated him)

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crimesofvisualshock replied to your post “It is getting awkward trying to explain that I’m perfectly content in...”

*highly jaded ass bitch still trying to recover from a bad break up a year ago* Bitch I highly…DO NOT recommend AT ALL! Also hey what up I’m not dead…fortunately/unfortunately is still up for debate.

Thank you, i’ve missed u, sorry i missed congratulating u on ur bday, i always remember tho! it’s been hard, last meet ups with friends, and getting the lingering sensation of pity from them

as if im not utterly devastated that my best friend would rather go back to his awful ex than to face alone time...

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Well, I’ve come a long way, I’m going to go to a...

ABRAZAME MUUUUY FUERTEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! tehehehe

hahaha yea something like that, well, trying new things wontt hurt lol

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crimesofvisualshock

Nah in fact that's normal and I feel like it's time to start seeing that as such. Like there's only so much you can get out being with just one person so it's best to learn about your likes and dislikes while you can. Like it's funny how people want to assume that their thoughts on love could actually pertain to us because it doesn't just like our views can or cannot be applied to there's. They don't have to like it or take advice but don't look at us strangely as if you're normal.

yea, like as it were only one correct answer, afterall, we all are different and live things differently XD welp, moral of the story, choose the subjects u talk about with certain people XD

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crimesofvisualshock

I get the same looks. Like for Valentine's Day, my co-worker asked me if my guy did anything special for me and I told her no (neither of us don't like Valentine's Day) and she just gave me the most offended and outraged look like omg he's so unromantic and blah blah blah like woman no two couples are alike at all so not everybody celebrates it that deep. Like what works for me would probably leave y'all in shambles so I'm the last person to give advice but I will offer a point of view.

yeah, it’s weird, everyone has different likes and points of view, i find it shocking that a person’s personal view on just one aspect of a relationship can be that far from what u think, despite agreeing in so many other things

like i was talking to a my girl friend and we both agree we won’t know what we like and don’t like about someone’s personality if we just have one sentimental partner for eternity but the minute I mentioned the same but in a sexual relationship she gave me a super weird look like...”ugh no just one sexual partner for eternity pls’ and I was super shocked ._.

Like exploring likes and dislikes in ur sex life equals to be a whore ._. and i was like...for real...? am i that wrong if i wanna have sex with someone BEFORE i get married because I feel like it and because I wanna know if we are compatible sexually? isn’t sex an important but not defining part of a relationship? giving such an importance to virginity and such like it really defines ur whole personality...was shocking to learn how she thinks about it and saddens me cause it’s something i won’t be able to discuss objectively with her ever ._.

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crimesofvisualshock

Angel in the street Danger in the sheets Staring at that booty is a religious experience

Don’t misunderstand, I have no problem with his pants but couldn’t help noticing lol, wasn’t just me right? or am I the only pervert XD

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crimesofvisualshock replied to your post: Mom...

Just literally stop caring. Like you can get your job without tolerating bullshit. It’s basically in one ear and out the other with most people who try to tell you anything. Just focus on you and your craft and don’t let anybody else try to tell you how to do something you already know.

sadly it came to that, I just don’t care anymore, and it’s sad :c I wanted to be a better person but I literally don’t care about ppl anymore, at least not as empathic as I used to, even more, being nice has not gotten me anywhere so i might as well just stop putting effort in things with no profit lol.

Not that i cant change the real me that cries with disney movies and sports anime but I just might, for my own good just don’t expose my good sides, since ppl easily takes advantage of those x’D

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Mom telling me her “dinner” plans Me: So we will...

2017 - Pettiness at LVL 100 and take no bullshit! Don’t feel like you can do it yourself count on me because I ain’t got shit to lose except dignity but ain’t nobody got time for all of that!

People are just very stubborn in turning me into a bitch!! I mean, I already am but I put it under control for the sake of living in stupid society!! but im tired of that!! if people won’t love me for the better person I try to be then why do I care? let them meet the real me ¬3¬ im tired, very tired of taking bullshit in