Dive to Distraction

Hello I'm Nancy, also panda, tama or dive Coffee addict with junk food and fangirling as favorite ways to escape. Love to rant and to drool over men twice my age. I'm a pervert and lazy panda with an unhealthy voice fetish. Toshi addict TT___TT if...

[moveslikekeithrichards]

can u believe some people can see a cat & not immediately be filled with absolute unconditional love for that animal. they dont even get the urge to kiss them right on their little baby cat head. thats incomprehensible to me

[lover-of-the-light117-deactivat]

Hot Take:

I’d rather have a good ending than more seasons

[bluecarnationsunflower]

[Part 2] Tsuda Kenjirou

[did-you-know]

Scientists say the best way to convey sarcasm in your text messages is to use a winky face. 

Without it, your jokes are often completely misinterpreted. 

(Source)

[bob-belcher]

tony: excuse you??? stephen: no YOU

[divetodistraction]

crimesofvisualshock

Probably the best and worst thing is just straight up be honest. If he truly values your friendship then he’d listen but if he’d put someone else above his friends to which it causes stress on you then say something. Your mental health is of the utmost importance and if a friendship ends then it’s their loss in the end.

It saddens me because we’ve been talking aabout this for MONTHS and i did my best to give my best advice but yet...

I never was a good actress, and if i dont like you i just cant fake it, id rather not go through the stress of having to TRY and i dont want him to stress either, trying to mediate, it is true what they say, better not tell ur friends how ur partner treats you cause u can forgive but ur friends could never (not that it would have helped, i saw with my own two eyes how she treated him)

[divetodistraction]

coffeemakesmeahappybean

I think so, if you type in her name and nothing comes up, then you're already blocked, but I am sure there is some kind of work-around so one can be blocked on both ends.

kittykatsandbox

you could try to block her. You could also make it so that only friends can view your page. There's also an option to make a list of people you choose who are the only ones who can view your posts.

I dont know how to reply anymore but thank you, i just dont want her lurking on my profile since she deleted me but not my sister, i dont want her to access my stuff through her >_> i’ll check it out

[divetodistraction]

Can I block someone from facebook if she already eliminated me? like i dont want her to stalk on my posts from our shared friends

[divetodistraction]

this girl just pulled a ‘surprise bitch’ on me

XD

[divetodistraction]

How can u get away from seeing your best friend self destruct with a toxic relationship he had just gotten rid of without being a bad friend?

I’m a loss for words, I can’t even get out of social gatherings now, I don’t want this..................................................................víbora tu find out I don’t like her, even more i dont want him to notice, i just cant watch this charade guys i just can’t

[divetodistraction]

will everyone stop comparing movies and companies?

It’s just entertainment man

[divetodistraction]

kittykatsandbox replied to your post: kittykatsandbox replied to your post: ...

You really just need to ignore them. You can try to explain you’re side if you want, that may help. But if they don’t listen to your feelings on it even after you explain then their opinion isn’t even really worth listening to.

that’s true, but i have to admit that even if i didnt feel alienated before, i certainly feel that now, but i guess i just have to mind my own business...in silence x’D

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[divetodistraction]

intherealmofasagittarius replied to your post: I’ve been opening up with my RL friends and they...

I’m sorry to hear about that, if you need anyone to talk to here, I’m here and won’t judge one bit either. I have a friend on Facebook that isn’t too big on relationships either but she doesn’t feel people would get her if she explained herself.

And ppl indeed wont understand, I talked about this in my last gatherings and how I wish I didn’t, they made me feel I have problems and unresolved trauma (which is indeed true, but I doubt that having making peace with all that I’ll magically jump to a relationship anyway) and all the things I have a strong opinion about will change once I leave my sad sad life behind *read it with sarcasm*

[divetodistraction]

kittykatsandbox replied to your post: It is getting awkward trying to explain that I’m...

There’s nothing wrong with just waiting for someone you really like being with/around(even if it takes a while). A lot of people practice that believe it or not.

I’ve been without boyfriend for over 8 years, I felt pretty good about it, not rushing, but everytime someone talks about the subject they look at me with such pitiful eyes and they make me feel there is actually something wrong with me and that I indeed have a problem but i dont realize it yet? like poor girl

a friend just said “and you are so pretty....” with such a pitiful look, like wow, being “pretty” is SUCH A WASTE what the hell.... “u were so pretty, and funny in middle school” [so sad u didnt recover from ur last relationship and u are wasting ur youth being alone] what kind of bullshit is that =/

[divetodistraction]

I’ve been opening up with my RL friends and they got so scared/dissappointed on the way I am that I just wished I never talked about anything that actually matters to me and just be drink buddies, now I wanna avoid all social gatherings but that is me being defensive and a coward and I don’t want to ever get out of my confort zone that I tried very hard to get...

[divetodistraction]

It is getting awkward trying to explain that I’m perfectly content in not persuing having a romantic relationship :/

[theori-theori]

Same here Its important to get our priorities right XD

[divetodistraction]

I think i should go to therapy as well, I know im heterosexual...but id rather not get involved with a man, not romantically and certainly not in sex...