#crossdreaming

[6hannahjane6]

Just thought I would try a bit of AI💋

[sissydreamlingerie]

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Crossdreamer Pride Flag

Crossdreaming: people who dream about being another gender than the one assigned, regardless of their actual/current gender.

Source (via @crossdreamers​).

[asynca]

Oh phew. I was worried that I upset you. Well, what I asked was regarding how I feel about myself. I'm a female, and since highschool I've been imagining myself as another person, usually a male. I've always preferred a masculine look (clothing, cologne, etc). I've imagined being a guy every now and then but for some reason it's been a bit more unsettling lately. I'm scared because I'm currently in a relationship with a guy and every time i think about having sex with him my mind goes blank.

Oooh, dude. That sounds pretty stressful, yeah. 

I’ll just get some terminology out of the way: blissfully imagining yourself as another gender and fantasizing about it is called ‘crossdreaming’. Not everyone who crossdreams is transgender, but pretty much every trans person has crossdreamt. 

The fact that you’re unsettled is definitely something worth examining. I can’t say for sure what your feelings mean, but there is a possibility they may mean you are transgender, which is what I think you’re saying you’re afraid of. 

However, they could be feelings of wanting to self-express in a more masculine way, and your feelings of blankness towards your boyfriend could be to do with your gender, or they could be to do with your sexuality, or just to do with your own confusion about your identity. Or they could just be because he’s not the right person for you!

You say you’re possibly interested in dressing more masculinely. Why not try that and see if it brings you some clarity and relief? It’s not even something you need to do in public straight away. Get some men’s clothes and dress up in your bedroom. Take some boyish selfies, see how you like it. You can decide later if you want to be boyish around people, too. 

If later you feel like that isn’t quite ‘enough’, you might realise you don’t want to just look boyish, but you actually feel more comfortable as an actual boy. 

I think one important thing to let you know is that you don’t need to have immediate answers about these things. It may take a long time for you to understand what your feelings are, and a great deal of self-exploration to feel comfortable. Or, you might get a sudden ‘click’ where everything makes sense.

At the risk of sounding like a broken record, have you considered counselling or therapy? Sometimes talking through this stuff can make it less mystifying and give you some more direction. 

[otaku-tyriq]

<p>Why am I so opsessed with that Picture in which Jack Barakat is wearing a pretty Princess dress and the others try to behead him?</p>

<p> Why am I so obsessed with Jack Barakat wearing a pretty Princess dress? </p>

<p> Why am I so obsessed with Jack Barakat? </p>

<p> Why am I so obsessed?! </p>

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[6hannahjane6]

Are there any guys out there who would like to take my picture 📸 😜

[kah0922]

I’m sure you have several questions, none of which I have the answer to.

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