#crushupdate

[sapphicsinthecloset]

I just sent a message to my crush detailing what I imagined our future would be like if we moved in together and she replied saying her heart swelled and that she loved me. Do you think she likes me back?

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I cancelled plans with the girl I like because my sister is coming in to town and I only get to see her twice a year. I told my crush this and she was understanding but I still feel bad. I also told her that she was the love of my life and she said “I won’t forget it” with a heart emoji. Do you think we’ll be alright?

[sapphicsinthecloset]

oh mod cyan maybe you could also write her a letter and hide it or leave it somewhere she can find but not a very visible place, like maybe when shes showering you leave it with her clothes and because it is "hidden", she can kinda not bring it up until shes ready to talk about it with you. also, she might be the one to profess her love to you! you never know ;)

Well, our relationship is kinda weird. 

I don’t know how to explain it but we both sort of know how the other one feels. It’s more a matter of I Wanna Take the Next Step With You. That’s the part that I’m worried about. We’ve spoken many times about our feelings towards each other it’s just that we’ve never done anything about it.

I feel like now we’re both at a place that we can try to make a relationship work. We’re finally in the same(ish) city and both have cars and jobs. We’ve both been out of high school for a few years so we’ve definitely matured a lot. I just want to try a different form of closeness with her.

And now I’m just hoping she doesn’t follow this blog omg

[sapphicsinthecloset]

@ mod cyan: Honestly? What BETTER time to profess your love than IN a romantic setting? I say do it. Just my two cents though. Hope everything goes well for you!

ok i will! i’ll be sure to tell y’all how it goes

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@ mod cyan: make sure to tell her privately !!! doing it infront of a Whole bunch of People may make her nervous,, also! maybe wait til near-ish the end of the trip? not the very last minute ofc,,, i wish u the best of luck!

i planned to do it privately! we’re the only ones on the trip so that won’t be difficult.and the trip is three days so i’ll ask on the second day at the end. but then, if she doesn’t like me we’ll sit in the car for six hours together omg

[sapphicsinthecloset]

so i’m planning a trip with the girl i like and we’re going to be staying in a hotel room in one of the most romantic cities in the south. everyone is telling me to profess my love for her then but idk. i don’t want her to feel pressured or uncomfortable.

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The girl I like said in the group chat that she had plans and I forgot that when I asked her if she wanted to hang out one-on-one. She said that for me, she’d cancel her plans and I said “it’s a date then” but I’m wondering if she knows that I want it to be a real date.

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The girl I have a crush on is in a group chat with me and a bunch of our mutual friends. A lot of our friends want us to get together but we’re too shy to make the first move unless we’re “play flirting” with each other in the group chat.

But even when we private message each other we always end up talking about a hypothetical wedding with one another.