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[sapphicsinthecloset]

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[green-is-gay]

i dont WANT pride months to be over,

on the other hand...

[sceptixfakemon]

i really genuinely wish I could hit chatgpt with my bare fists and hear its pityful electronic voice fade into glitched robotic gibberish and choking beeps as I hit it before I smash it for good and it shuts the fuck up forever

[sceptixfakemon]

no no it's fine

[sceptixfakemon]

why are so many people wondering if I'm horny for chatgpt. it's like the most unfuckable robot ever created heeell NO

[sceptixfakemon]

dragging you out of the tags like it's the last thing I'll ever do on this site

[kimyoonmiauthor]

US Book ban on LGBTQIA books

The Nationwide Book Ban Bill Moves to the House: How to Take Action Now

The nationwide book ban bill, HR 7661, has progressed out of committee and into the House. Here's what you need to know to take action.

At least hit the shiny repost button if you're going to do nothing else. This should not stand.

Stop the bill dead in its tracks. LGBTQIA people have a right to be represented in books.

[dreamforrest]

With SNAP and WIC programs being paused until further notice, I wanted to share that TooGoodToGo is a great way to get bread, bakery items and even prepared foods for cheap. It was created to reduce food waste. As it’s grown, restaurants and stores continue to be added.

[kateammann]

Happy Ace Week!!! 🖤🤍💜

[elumish]

It is incredibly important to train yourself to have your first instinct be to look something up.

Don't know how to do something? Look it up.

See a piece of news mentioned on social media? Look it up.

Not sure if something is making it to the broader public consciousness, either because you don't see it much or you see people saying nobody is talking about it? Look it up.

Don't know what a word means? Look it up.

It will make you a better reader and a better writer, but it will also just make you more equipped to cope with the world.

So often, I see people talking about something as though it is the first time anyone has ever acknowledged it, when I've been reading reports about it on the news for months or years. Or I see someone totally misinterpreting an argument because they clearly don't know what a word means--or, on the other hand, making an argument that doesn't make sense because they aren't using words the right way.

Look things up! Check the news (the real news, not random people on social media)! Do your research! You (and the world) will be better for it.

[ultramoderngurl]

but im a cheerleader reunion!

[makingdonalddrumpfagain]

[raleigh-straight]

Cowards, the lot of them.

[lestatfag]

STAY SAFE!! [ID: the Gilbert Baker pride flag with the words “Happy pride to all those who are unable to celebrate openly and safely. You are loved and seen!” in all-caps black text over it. /end ID]

[tf2heritageposts]

the fucking budget bill of hell passed the house that removes HRT from medicare, general medicare spending cuts, student financial aid cuts, and oh yeah lets the teump regime ignore court orders even harder and lets for even harder executive overreach. they did this shit at motherfucking 2 am so people wouldn’t notice too

it passed house like i said but still needs to pass senate.

tell your senators to invoke byrd rule which is a goddamn real thing apparently

call your goddamn senators i swear to god

and if you’re in DC there’s a protest going on as we speak

go do your civic duty you piece of shit

[tf2heritageposts]

he’ll cry and it’ll be all your fault for not calling and protesting

[twoblogger]

[783-remade]

is there a label that ACTUALLY means 'attraction regardless of gender' and doesn't have transphobic origins?

yes it’s called “bisexual”

[akumasheep]

Uh isn’t it pansexual

[sapphires-sapphic-void-deactiva]

Yeah it’s pansexual, I had to Google it just to check 😭

[sapphicsinthecloset]

Bisexuality is not transphobic where did we lose you?

[sapphires-sapphic-void-deactiva]

Wait thats a good point-

What label is anon talking about anyways? Like genuinely question

[sapphicsinthecloset]

The way the anon emphasizes “actually” makes me think they meant bisexuality is transphobic.

[783-remade]

is there a label that ACTUALLY means 'attraction regardless of gender' and doesn't have transphobic origins?

yes it’s called “bisexual”

[akumasheep]

Uh isn’t it pansexual

[sapphires-sapphic-void-deactiva]

Yeah it’s pansexual, I had to Google it just to check 😭

[sapphicsinthecloset]

Bisexuality is not transphobic where did we lose you?

[dykemd]

never forget what they took from us.

[dykemd]

[jay-wasstuff]

[sapphicsinthecloset]

if you're in a relationship with a man that you love how do you get out of the questioning spiral? because on one hand, i am attracted to him and we have helped each other heal and grow as people and i love seeing that and being there for it and he's one of my favorite people.

on the other hand, there are so many things he does and his family does that gets under my skin so fucking bad. his dad highkey doesnt respect women so as a result his sons all have sexist tendencies (which my boyfriend has done some work on but he still has quite a ways to go). that and i feel like as much as i love him idk if i could be monogamous with him (we are polyamorous) but i feel like i could be with women and i havent been able to get this out of my head since like 4-5 months into the relationship and it's killing me, especially bc ik he plans on proposing. if this doesnt get answered i understand why but any advice is so appreciated 💖 hope yall mods are doin okay

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