Tonight pretty much cemented never being around my oldest sister in law. My husband’s uncle and aunt are in town and yesterday was his birthday. My mother in law suggested going out to eat with the whole family to celebrate. Mind you, I typically get off work at 6:30 and would meet them at the restaurant. We were supposed to meet at 7:00 pm. I was a little late but this was sort of expected. 25 minutes roll by and the SIL is no where to be seen so we agree to get in line to worker. She and her family arrives while in line and then refuses to order with us. Then sits down at the table barely talking to anyone. I feel the worst for my niece because she’s in a hard place having a psychopath as a mother and feeling like she can only interact with us when her mother is not watching. Then we all get up to leave and she doesn’t say anything. My husband won a toy out of the crane machine so when my niece said bye I asked if she wanted it and she took it. I didn’t see the exchange afterwards but I guess her mother was upset that she accepted the stupid toy from me and probably made her discard it. I wish she would’nt be such a cunt and go see someone. Therefore I just don’t have a desire to be anywhere around this toxicity.