#dangerous behavior

[specific90saesthetics]

[jnrduttonswritingjournal]

I recently read about a social media inspired trend of smoking coffee. There are plenty of reasons this, like so many other social media inspired practices, is a really bad idea.

I'll just give a couple: there's the potential for overdose.

When you drink coffee,most people sip it over time and it hits slowly, but with smoking coffee, the risk is higher and the caffeine hits you faster.

There's an old saying, play stupid games,win stupid prizes, and in extreme cases of this, one of those "prizes" could be death.

Even if you didn't overdose, you could still end up with a slew of complications, like lung or even heart problems.

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キケン

踏切での危険行為とは、踏切内で行われる通行ルールに反する行為や、安全を脅かすような行為のことをいいます。具体的には、遮断機が降りているにもかかわらず、踏切内に立ち入ったり、自動車や自転車で突破しようとする行為、歩行者や自転車の横断、自動車の追い越しや無理な横断、踏切内で立ち止まったり、物を置いたりする行為などがあります。これらの行為は自身の命だけでなく、他者の命や鉄道の安全な運行をも脅かす非常に危険な行為であり、法律によって禁止されています。踏切ではルールを守り、安全を第一に行動することが大切です。

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キケン

踏切での危険行為とは、踏切において安全を脅かすような行為やルールに反する行為のことを指します。具体的には、踏切の遮断機が降りているにもかかわらず、それを無視して踏切内に侵入する行為や、踏切内で立ち止まったり、自動車を停車したりする行為などがあります。これらの行為は、列車との衝突事故や、他の車両との衝突事故につながる可能性があり、大変危険です。踏切では、交通ルールに従って、安全に通行することが大切です。

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キケン

踏切での危険行為とは、列車の接近を確認せずに踏切内に立ち入ったり、遮断機が降りているにもかかわらず踏切内に侵入したりする行為のことをいいます。このような行為は、列車と接触する事故や、列車の遅延を引き起こす原因となる非常に危険な行為です。 踏切では、列車が接近しているかどうかを確認するために、警報機や遮断機などの安全装置が設置されています。しかし、これらの装置を無視して踏切内に立ち入ったり、遮断機をくぐって渡ったりする行為は、列車と接触する事故につながる可能性があります。

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キケン

踏切での危険行為とは、踏切内で行われる通行ルールに反する行為や、安全を脅かすような行為のことをいいます。具体的には、遮断機が降りているにもかかわらず、踏切内に立ち入ったり、自動車や自転車で突破しようとする行為、歩行者や自転車の横断、自動車の追い越しや無理な横断、踏切内で立ち止まったり、物を置いたりする行為などがあります。これらの行為は自身の命だけでなく、他者の命や鉄道の安全な運行をも脅かす非常に危険な行為であり、法律によって禁止されています。踏切ではルールを守り、安全を第一に行動することが大切です。

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[lemongizumo]

I didn’t want to make any public posts about what’s been happening in the past days in our fandom because of my health issues. Some of you know, mostly people I consider my friends now, others because I was offering emergency commissions to solve hospital and treatment costs, but my health isn’t that good lately and the level of drama, intensity and everything around this topic was affecting me. Still is a bit. However, after everything that has come out, so many similar experiences, so many people being manipulated, hurt and damaged because of this one individual who I considered my friend, I can’t remain silent anymore. I just can’t. I’m still shocked and feeling so many emotions, from sadness to concern, from disappointment to anger. Even guilty for not realizing how disgusting this person was. It’s unbelievable.

I won’t go into any details, those involved know everything that needs to be known. I will not share screenshots either but there are plenty to prove what this person tried to do until the end and how many people she damaged.

I became her friend months ago, around August/September of last year. I considered her a real friend, a good one even, she was nice to me all the time and talked to me every day for all these months. She bought my friendship with love bombing, gifts, with praise about my art and me, a fucking naïve idiot, thought she was sincere. I never noticed the red flags until it was too late, how she was collecting artists along the way and discarding the ones that weren’t useful. She was after popular people, writers and artists, anyone that could give her status. She wanted her name seen everywhere and she invaded every space she could. She also promoted her server to anybody who had big numbers or was known in the HG fandom.

I didn’t know anybody in the fandom, only some names I followed because I admired their art or writing. I always spent my days in any fandom as a spectator, doing fanart and having casual conversations but not getting close to anybody. She was the first person I let get close to me.

I trusted her and that was a mistake I’ll regret for a long time.

She took advantage of me not knowing anybody, she used me as a dumpster bin to trash talk about others, she played victim over and over again, she claimed some people hated her, and she made me believe so many things that I later discovered weren’t real. She twisted reality to her convenience; she created a false narrative where she was the poor victim who was attacked constantly and that she only wanted the best for everybody. She just wanted to be ‘nice.’

Knowing English isn’t my first language and sometimes it’s hard for me to understand certain expressions, she used that to be able to act as a bigot without me noticing until it was too late.

And I believed her. I believe every single fucking word she said about others, because why would she lie? She was just trusting me with things, right? She was just warning me about people, she cared about me, she was just looking out for me.

I’m a good friend, I know I am. Friendship has always been important to me, and I’m faithful to whoever I care about. I thought I was being a good friend to her by defending her and giving her my thoughts and opinions about all these ‘awful’ people who didn’t like her and were against her.

She just wanted an ally.

Her love bombing and praise only lasted until I didn’t act the way she wanted.

I confronted one of her ‘friends’ in her server after that person was exposing an innocent writer just to humiliate them. I was mistreated and attacked. She, the owner, didn’t do anything to stop it while I was telling her in dms what was happening. She didn’t do anything at all because she didn’t care.

She didn’t care either when I showed her proof that her friend was a terf. I was worried, I was so naïve I thought maybe this person didn’t know about her friend being transphobic. But she knew. She didn’t act surprised, she just did her best to clarify she wasn’t a terf ‘by association’ in between jokes and tried to justify her friend over and over again. She dismissed my worries and acted like it wasn’t such a big deal.

I trusted her to the point I felt safe enough to tell her I am autistic and how hard it was growing up not knowing that, how everyone treated me as if I was dumb when I was a kid and a teenager. Her attitude towards me changed after she knew my diagnosis. From treating me like I was a child to a condescending way to talk to me whenever I did ‘wrong.’

I supported her when she decided to create a BB just to be called silly and treated as stupid because I wouldn’t join if the terf was there. She simply didn’t care I was affected because I’m non-binary and trans. She just wanted artists for her shitty event because she needed to make a name among other events. She kept insisting that I join, even after she knew the terf was going to be a part of the event. She wanted me to be a pinch hitter artist.

I finally opened my eyes after my medical emergency in February. I decided to open emergency commissions to help with the costs and that led me to talk to people I never talked to before. People this individual didn’t want me to talk to.

I don’t know why things happen but everything seems to happen for a reason. Some people that reached out to me to help me were people this individual talked shit about over and over again for months. And to my surprise, they were nothing like I was made to believe. On the contrary, these people were sweet, nice, and were actually sincere.

Her reaction to me talking to them was passive-aggressive comments, jokily threats and playing the victim. She also started giving me the silent treatment in order to manipulate me again. Which, luckily, didn’t work.

This disgusting individual lied so much I have spent the last few days wondering how much of what she said was true and how much was bullshit. She tried to mess with friendships, she tried to ruin a relationship, she made racist and transphobic comments, she lied about so many people that didn’t deserve it, she thought her lies wouldn’t catch up to her and kept acting like a ‘mean girl’ who wanted to be number one in popularity. She thought having popular friends, who she bragged about, would keep her away from anything.

She thought she was safe and that I was stupid enough to keep believing her.

I’m not stupid. I never was.

And I will not remain silent while she still plays victim, while she decided to blame ME for all of her fucking mess.

When this whole thing exploded, she desperately tried to convince someone she wasn’t bad, that it was all a misunderstanding and that she was just venting to me. A good pity party because she was being called out and she didn’t expect it. She tried to convince them that I was to blame. She didn’t hesitate to throw me under the bus, to make anyone believe I was the villain, exposing me with screenshots, for all we know, were probably manipulated by her. It is now known that she edits, changes and deletes messages.

I’m not a villain for exposing the truth to people I now care about. To people who have been nothing but nice to me even tho they are aware I said awful things about them based on what this individual told me. She tried to brainwash me with her lies and almost succeeded.

The past few weeks have been hard. But it’s harder to see how many others she hurt.

She’s not a good person no matter how much she tried to act like one. Her disgusting behavior led to so much damage and she got me involved in it, using me until the end.

This behavior is not ‘fandom drama,’ it is dangerous behavior, one that should not be tolerated or accepted. Fandom is not a place to escalate in popularity, to surround yourself with popular artists just to get something from them. Fandom should be a safe place for us to enjoy, to escape from reality, from the real world that is hard enough for so many of us.

I will not let her step on me anymore. I will not be her scapegoat. And she will not get my sympathy anymore.

Please be safe out there, do not let these people harm us anymore. This individual and her fucking terf friend can go fuck themselves.

I am so tired.

[morgans-little-darlingwhore]

Please don't confuse these people with other persons of colour. They're just a bunch of stupid people like you can find in any other races. Please don't be racist, don't hate people for no reasons.