#dappervents

[dapperghst]

I'm so exhausted seeing transandrophobia, gonna clear my head for a bit because it's getting to me, I'm going to look up positive things.

Vent/rant thing below

But before I do that, on a whim I began searching "TME" to see what would come up. And you know what I saw? "Beam that kills TMEs" is the third search. I don't care if it's a joke, that's disgusting, transphobic, sexist and misogynistic. If you use TME or TMA language, please don't interact with me because it's also exorsexist trying to put non-binary people into another binary.

Nope, putting anti tme/tma in tags and the hashtage kill all tmes beam tag came up genuinely fuck off with this nonsense

[dapperghst]

TW: vent/rant

Why aren't transmasculine people allowed a word for the specific kind of discrimination we face? Why must there always be something wrong with it, and then people always get hung up on the wording rather than the fact that there is a group of trans people who are facing problems, real world problems that people disregard as anything meaningful?

Why must we always be erased and forgotten, never seen as who we are because we are masculine. Why do people think this is okay, to hurt others because of who they are? Why must people parrot the same rhetoric transphobes and TERFS say but to people who share rhe same community?

Why must we be divided on something that is happening, has happened historically and still happens now? Why can't people accept that transmasc people face discrimination that is different than "just transphobia" than "just misogyny" that we experience things that others don't and experience things others do? Is it because we're masculine?

I don't understand why people come on here and hate, come on here and loathe, come on here and say that we do not experience bad things, because we do. It is not the "Oppression Olympics" I am trying to compete in, I just want the pain experienced by people like me to be recognised, for people to understand and sympathise or empathise or just be compassionate to the experiences, the shaming, the bigotry, the discrimination, the outcasting and the other horrible things that happen to us.

I don't understand why all of that gets pushed aside because people transition to become masculine or to become men. Please understand I am not trying to take away from anyone else, but we are trying to be heard, when all we have ever been is forgotten.