Hello,,, !!!!! I was wondering if I could get some words of encouragement for a darkness incarnate, fox spirit, Incubus, Kangel (needy streamer overload) kin who struggles to connecting with their alterhuman identity and overall identity because of being surrounded by Vesils who’s identities r much simpler then his,, if not I understand, no pressure of course !! I feel as though this is a bit of a big request,,
Sometimes I struggle to connect with my identities too, you're not alone in this! The urge to compare yourself to others is hard to avoid, but you shouldn't focus too much on that! Have you tried asking Vesils for help? Maybe they have some advice to give since they managed to connect with their identities!
I can suggest you to try reading something about your kins, listening to music that reminds you of them, doing activities you would have liked as them and more! But remember, regardless of the strength of your bond with your kins, you're still valid!