#dawnavis

[vaspider]

I’m just so moved by the things you do/say sometimes. I don’t really know how to word it, but I think you’re incredible at what you do with your business and also just in general. And for what it’s worth, I think choosing to use a lesbian flag that isn’t attached to or associated with so much bigotry is a good decision. You can’t please everyone, so going with the option that feels best for you, I think that’s admirable. Despite any flack this brings you. Taking care of yourself is good.

Thank you so much.

[sciencetylia]

You are so amazing and have come so far since I started following you years ago. You kick ass and are so intelligent. You try so hard and put a lot of effort into what you do, which is so admirable. I truly believe you are going to make it through this struggle. Remember- you are important and worthy of happiness no matter what happens with school or anything else. You've accomplished a lot, but even if you hadn't, you're still a valuable human being. Sending you positive vibes for 2017. <3 <3

Thank you. :)

[vaspider]

Hey! Just so your followers know, that swim suit is SUPER comfy. Just make sure you follow the sizing chart carefully because I know I had to go up like 2 sizes than I normally would (my body has also been changing a lot though, so idk). But I also wanted to mention that the legs on that style are still super tight around my thighs, like uncomfortably tight. I don’t know if that’s just me and my awesome thighs, but something to be aware of maybe? Sorry if this is a nuisance ask (thanks anxiety).

It’s not a nuisance ask and it isn’t the first time that I’ve heard it! I thought for sure I’d put something in the listing about it, but I went back and... well. I hadn’t. So I added an ALL CAPS portion of the listing saying THE LEGS ARE REALLY TIGHT WHAT THE HECKING HECK. 

[vaspider]

I just need some validation from someone who has been involved in the queer/bi community longer than I have... I have seen multiple people saying lately that bisexuality is harmful to nb people and pansexual is better. And they've also said bi people only changed the definition to prove they're the best and ignore problems with the word. I just feel so hurt from this as an nb bi. In my experience no Bi person thinks of themselves as "the best" identity in the queer community. Idk

None of that is true, the ‘two or more’ definition is at least 25 years old, and came out of the community actually trying to meaningfully define itself in the early 90s. How are we still arguing over this? 

It’s all so exhausting. I’m sorry you’re hurting. 

[vaspider]

Someone I really respect as a person and as a friend just posted a thing on fb that basically says bi people "want to be seen as the best" in the queer community, and that we make nb people uncomfortable (both them and I are nb). They said the only reason our definition changed to two or more genders is because we want to be seen as the best and people only id as bi because it's mainstream. I just feel hurt and want to cry. I dunno what to do.

That definition has been in place for almost 30 years so whoever that is needs to calm their butt. Bi people have been actively engaged in dialogue about our place in the queer community for a long time. 

I’m sorry they have problems with bi people. It sounds like they really need to examine their biantagonism.

Feel better. I’m sorry that hurtful stuff was flung at you.

[f1-birb]

My positive is that I got to sleep a lot and ate some yummy food.

And also I have a cute cat who always makes me smile.

your cat is like, the blueprint for black cats

but look at those solid triangles for ears!!

[f1-birb]

Can I just say-

I am PROUD of Lando for his mental strength. He has been dealing with so much in both his personal and professional life, not to mention being physically sick for part of it. And he has gotten through it without complaining, without placing blame on others (even when they deserved it).

He is strong and resilient and loyal and never gives up. He always learns from any mistakes and is well-liked by his peers/colleagues. He is so loved and HE DESERVES IT!!

I am proud of Lando for being able to be vulnerable with his emotions. And I love Lando, in part, because he has open about his mental health and how he feels.

I hope he has a wonderful break and can be with people who love him.

(I mean this in a happy, non angry, positive tone, so I hope this isn’t annoying on your F1 summer break lol)

all of this actually ^^

[f1-birb]

Here are more pics of my cat’s vacant stare. Nothing going on behind those eyes. :)

her head may be empty but I'm sure her heart is full 🥹