Above all else Bruce Wayne is a freak about Dick Grayson and it should reflect heavy in Jason the son he got because he missed Dick so bad. I want Bruce to stumble hard trying to think of anything JASON likes and going for something vague, wrong, or something Dick liked. I want him off the mark 90% of the time. This does not help literally anything considering other characters use Bruce (Jason's father for two years) as a source of reference for what Jason was like.
If you ask Bruce about Jason he'll say something right but he's very vague about it and it's clear he doesn't know the details. Some generic teen boy interest. Or he uses it as an opportunity for a learning lesson to discourage a certain behavior in others even if it's not something Jason did. Calling Jason an angry reckless impulsive fighter is also how he copes, shifts blame, and holds onto memory of Jason for no one else to know all tied up in one confusing bow. Bruce is also incredibly unaware of consequences to his own actions
Bruce will always compare Jaybin to Dick he is so pleased when other's do it. Jason is not new in the mantle of the Robin he's meant to be Robin (Dick) and I want that to SHOW
Robin is what matters to Bruce. Jason figured he couldn't be in clubs because it'd get in the way of Robin and all the way in his death comic Jason believes Bruce only cares about cases. And would not care in helping Jason find his mother. And it's so vital to me that after all that time with Bruce- near the very end- that's what Jason believes. It's undeniable that the only way to be close to Bruce is to be with batman- the nightlife. But I want Robin tied tight around Jason too.
I want Bruce to ruffle Jason's hair and idly smooth it out to match Dick's without even noticing
It does not matter how much Jason himself is like or not like Dick- what matters is what Bruce will inevitably see
