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[problematicroleplayers]

Ahh, you seem like you're done talking to me.;; Um, hopefully you'll still read this.. I'm worried for you, and for the others, and everyone who encourages this, that's why I'm speaking up. I really want everyone to be the best they can be, and it seems like you're putting people into the very boxes that you're shaming. And if you're wrong about those boxes, you could seriously hurt them. If you're willing to injure these people, then it's almost as if you're okay with being bigoted yourself..

You're equating their feelings to those of the oppressed groups again. Please stop it. Whatever feelings of shame they get from being outed as bigots, they deserve. 

Please do not prioritize their feelings over the groups that they harm. Do not. They are not equivalent. 

You don't have to be worried for me, honestly. I'm a level-headed individual, being active in these matters doesn't mean there's something wrong with me or that my life or mental state is in any danger. You don't have to be in danger to be an activist. 

Lastly, no, where have I ever said I'm willing to injure these people? I don't wish any physical or mental harm on them. Being ashamed that they're bigoted is not the same as being oppressed. Your entire message puts their feelings on the same level as their victims.

Don't.

[problematicroleplayers]

I didn't mean to misuse the word! Sorry about that! I associate it with Homestuck and-- ahh, that's not really what we're talking about, though. I think that your intentions are really admirable! And I can understand that you feel a need to stick up for people-- maybe you've been faced with a lot of situations in real life where people have been ignorant to the struggles of who you are. I just think it's being taken a bit too far-- this isn't to say it's necessarily wrong, though.

It's not just about what struggles I face, it's what others' face. Like I said, if the community actively stuck up for themselves and called out people where necessary, I wouldn't have made this blog at all. But not only do people rush to the defense of bigots, people who call them out are consistently sent anons who accuse them of "bullying people."

The oppressed group will always get prioritized. This blog is merely a warning system. I will always have screenshot proof, and any shame the people called out feel is warranted. They should already know better, but they don't, and thus, they harm people. They shouldn't be defended or protected.

[problematicroleplayers]

Sorry, but.. I don't think loyalties is exactly the word for it? Like, I understand you seem really triggered by a lot of things that happen in the community, but communities can't be perfect, especially when they're so big! In fact, it's really impressive that we haven't gone past the point of no return yet! Roleplayers can stick up for themselves, though, which is what I was trying to point out-- perhaps your talent as an activist could be put to better use elsewhere! : ^ )

These things make me angry :/ I don't have any triggers, so don't claim I am triggered, please. A trigger is a full blown panic attack, and I highly doubt I'd be able to coherently blog while triggered.

If roleplayers were perfectly capable of standing up for themselves and the group others harm, I wouldn't have made this blog in the first place. But they don't. Every single time there's an incident there's a rush of people who always run around yelling "it's just their opinion!" "If you dont like, you can unfollow!"  and these things just give the bigoted people more room with which to hurt people.

So apologies, but this blog isn't going anywhere. I made it with sufficient reasoning.

[problematicroleplayers]

Ahh.. Hello. I'm sorry if I'm being a bother here, but.. I think that you all could be hurting people with this blog. I mean, we want to have fun and enjoy ourselves and everything-- and sometimes it's good to have a bit of policing-- but to make an entire blog for it.. Well.. It's not really impersonal anymore, you know? I guess I'm just asking for it to be taken down, because it seems like this whole social justice thing is getting a bit out of hand. Thanks for reading this, and take care.

Okay, I’m going to lay this down for you very clearly.

The feelings of the bigoted people who end up on this blog are not as important as the people whom they hurt. We don’t put people up here without proper reasoning. The people who end up here are, to sum up a few, extremely sexist, racist, homophobic, and disrespect a roleplayer’s boundaries and cross the line into sexual harassment.

Why would you think their feelings of shame and embarrasment matter over the people they hurt with their bigoted views? Try to answer me, because I honestly cannot for the life of me understand why someone would prioritize someone who is sexist over the people they hurt with their sexist views.

I’m not taking this blog down. I’m not taking the posts off. I will not prioritize the feelings of bigoted people over the groups that they harm. Do not try to call social justice drama.

There’s differing opinions, and then there’s clearly being a bigot. The roleplay community should never cater to bigots. They actively destroy safe spaces and there is a huge problem with everyone getting up in arms when they are rightfully challenged. 

This blog by itself serves as a warning system. We attempt to educate. We collect proof. If they refuse to learn, they get a call out. I don’t want anyone to continue to be hurt by these people.

Are you seriously trying to tell me that the feelings of a person who tells a group of people that they are “stupid and weak” for the specific character they chose, matter more than the people they insulted?

Please, I encourage you to seriously think about where your loyalties lie, before telling us something like this again.

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