You know what, tumblr? I am sick of always having to be the one to do the emotional work of maintaining relationships. Right now I get the feeling that if I never reached out to a couple of people and attempted to arrange every single detail of our meetups that they’d never contact me again, even though they’ve shown strong interest in the past. It’s stupid and tiring and makes me feel unvalued and I’m fucking done with it. Next time some dumb person who wants to have sex with me decides that they’ll just let me pick up the slack of maintaining things, I’m going to tell them to either make a fucking effort or punch themselves. I’m done with this shit.