Why vacation is good, even for your President
What makes a leader great? There seems to be consensus that some of the most important traits are focus, perseverance, assertiveness, integrity, dedication, humility, creativity, and a sense of humor. The core responsibility of a President, business leader, entrepreneur or anyone else with huge influence and power is to make the right decisions. Decisions based on wisdom, humanity, personal maturity, a flexible and creative mind, and an open and strong heart.
Last year, there was much debate about Obama taking a vacation with his family during the fiscal crisis. While many people argued against Obama being away from the office amidst difficult times, however we believe that Obama’s leadership skills were obvious in this situation. His dedication to his family showed that he is not only a powerful and important person, but also the father of two young girls. Since Obama values family time, and stands true to his values, is it any wonder he didn’t give up his yearly planned family vacation?
Obama’s job is to make big decisions. He has a lot of clever people to gather all the facts, lay out the alternatives and expected implications, and feed him with information and opinions. He also has an abundance of staff and administrators to carry out the decisions he makes. When is Obama best at making those important decisions? When are you best at making the essential decisions in your life and career? If you are like most people, it will be when you have had a good night’s sleep, when you exercise regularly, eat a healthy diet, feel in control of the things that are most important to you and are content with yourself in all aspects of your life.
Obama might have a high working capacity, be very disciplined and be more intelligent than most people. However, at the core he is just a human being. Take away his sleep, his exercise, his time with his family – and just like you and I, he will gradually turn into a stressed out, unhappy, short tempered person. When a President makes decisions about serious matters like economic recovery, healthcare reform and foreign policy, I for one, would truly like him or her to be feeling a lot better than that.
Have you thought about when you get your best ideas and feel the most clear-sighted and creative? For many people, myself included, the answer is on or right after a vacation. Are you most productive a Monday after a great weekend, or a Friday after a stressed out week? I think the answer is obvious, and if we stop for a minute to think about it, I believe most of us will agree that all human beings need breaks to continue to perform their best.
In psychology it is called incubation, the period when your mind takes a break from the problem you are working on. It also occurs in your sleep while you are dreaming. This incubation period is considered to increase creativity and facilitate the problem-solving process. Without it your brain simply cannot perform at its best.
Even the world’s best marathon runner adheres to this principle: they run a marathon, and then they take a break. Without the break their bodies will deteriorate. Without down time for Obama, his mind, morality and wisdom will be compromised. No one is above this law of nature.
There is also another lesson here. It’s about whether the ends justify the means. Imagine a dilemma known from many Hollywood movies: If you can find a cure for cancer and save 1 million people, would it be ok to sacrifice 100 people against their will in the necessary tests? However painful it is to realize, we know that the answer to this question is no. If we start sacrificing innocent people no matter how important an end it serves, we lose something that is even more important - our humanity, and then everybody eventually loses.
So when we are asking Obama to sacrifice his children’s well being because he has important work to do, we better think twice. We will be one step closer to a world where the ends justify the means, and who wants to live in a world like that?
You might say, especially if you don't’ have kids of your own, that a vacation is really not that big a deal for Obama’s children, or that their mother can take care of them. However, today we know that when children feel neglected by their parents it nearly always results in some level of tragedy. Research shows that children who have experienced neglect can often lead to negative effects on health and intellectual and cognitive development. Children with highly involved parents tend to have fewer behavioural problems, higher educational achievement, higher self-esteem and life satisfaction – among many other benefits.
It has already been proven how important the rest period is for our productivity. Still many of us find it challenging to take a step back when important decisions need to be made. Perhaps we feel like we are giving up our control. Well, on the contrary, it allows us to actually see the bigger picture, gather our thoughts and make wiser decisions. At the same time, our kids get this vital time with their parents. Obama might not be everyone’s role model - and probably far from the ideal when it comes to work/life balance – but when he protects his time with his children he shows both integrity and wisdom.