You are not too much.
One of the deepest wounds of the feminine is carrying more wisdom, more awareness than her partner. And with it, the weight of responsibility for deeper connection, intimacy and emotional closeness.
The feeling of always having to fight: For more us. For growth together. For dragging both your own shadows and your partner’s into the light.
The feeling of always being too much, wanting too much, being the warrior of love.
You are not too much. You are not wrong or demanding for craving more depth. It is the ancient wound of the feminine to want more. Because we are literally connected to the source of life and love. To that which wants to move through us. Our bodies are portals. We receive. We create. We give birth. We are creators of more life, more love, more depth on this Earth.
And yet it’s often a fine line. Between the longing for connection and the danger of losing ourselves in the fight for it. Between speaking our truth and refusing to shrinkwhile still leaving space. Not trying to force awareness onto the other, even if we can see more. Like most things in life: It’s a balancing act. If this resonates with you - I feel you.
So to all the women out there: I wish you the strength to walk this fine line. To never lose your fire, to keep fighting for intimacy and at the same time, to know when the battle is no longer worth it and to not burn yourself out trying.
